"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Rise of the Don Juan

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I think Oxide has unwittingly become a true DJ success story. Too many people come in here looking for an edge, as Hypnotique said, you cant GET an edge that way. Oxide applied, tried, failed, learnt, adjusted and ended in success.

So, all AFC's looking for the magic pill or the 5 simple steps should first read his post, then give it a shot.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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haha not only for AFCs, its a delightful tale of success as well. very motivational dont you agree? :D
 

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i would agree- extremely motivational. you can tell it's not bullsh!t either, cuz he actually has times when he's failed.

possible addition the the DJ Bible maybe?
 

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you took the words right outta my mouth mate, definitely bible matierial!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Sart
I think Oxide has unwittingly become a true DJ success story. Too many people come in here looking for an edge, as Hypnotique said, you cant GET an edge that way. Oxide applied, tried, failed, learnt, adjusted and ended in success.

So, all AFC's looking for the magic pill or the 5 simple steps should first read his post, then give it a shot.
Oxide, or Russian Dennis! is a good kid, but he'll never pimp ho's like me! Just kidding man...

Anyways, I know the guy personally (we live in the same state and have hung out several times at clubs and parties) and he's pretty much been confident and the same since I first met him about a year or two ago.
 
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