Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

The rise of female only gyms

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,638
Reaction score
780
Age
42
On my local news station just so a promo for the story tonight on it. About female only gyms so women don't have to worry about men looking at them why working out. Of course the commercial makes it seem like guys are pervs.

Reminds me of that court case like 10 years ago. Some lady was suing the dentist or something she worked for because of "sexual harassment" and the judge said a comment about women wearing revealing clothing and they should expect guys to look if they do.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,603
Reaction score
5,138
Location
Bridgeport, CT
On my local news station just so a promo for the story tonight on it. About female only gyms so women don't have to worry about men looking at them why working out. Of course the commercial makes it seem like guys are pervs.

Reminds me of that court case like 10 years ago. Some lady was suing the dentist or something she worked for because of "sexual harassment" and the judge said a comment about women wearing revealing clothing and they should expect guys to look if they do.
Pretty sure this has been around for a while. Lucille Roberts from 70s - 20s comes to mind. Prob. still around today.
 

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 29, 2020
Messages
2,792
Reaction score
2,125
Yes because the gym is one of the only places left where you can stand on equal or higher ground than a woman can, it's an affront to the female ego, remember women are more masculine today, they take staring as confrontational not any sort of interest or romance, several short glances is different but staring at somebody who has masculine energy is never a good idea.
 

Billtx49

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 23, 2013
Messages
5,989
Reaction score
5,410
Location
DFW
Pretty sure this has been around for a while. Lucille Roberts from 70s - 20s comes to mind. Prob. still around today.
Yes, they’ve existed for decades now, Curves gym for women opened in 1992, they’ve been through some ups, downs, and closures, but there’s one operating here in my town, and they still had 367 franchise locations a couple years ago…
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,638
Reaction score
780
Age
42
Yes because the gym is one of the only places left where you can stand on equal or higher ground than a woman can, it's an affront to the female ego, remember women are more masculine today, they take staring as confrontational not any sort of interest or romance, several short glances is different but staring at somebody who has masculine energy is never a good idea.
Muscular women are a turn off. They don't look feminine.

I think the soccer player build is perfect. Like Morgan Brian for example. Toned in the right areas, nice legs, not overtly muscular like some women gym rats are now. Some men are attracted to women with huge muscles.

 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Zimbabwe

Banned
Joined
Aug 29, 2021
Messages
2,350
Reaction score
3,079
Age
30
Just tell them that you identify as a "woman", if they refuse to let you in sue them for discrimination.
 

Blacksheep

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2018
Messages
1,543
Reaction score
1,065
Age
35
Location
Brazil
In some cases that can be useful. We can't blame women for that.

Some guys don't know how to appreciate women's beauty with some respect. Some don't even know what respect is. Most of us here know about that, but out there... Everything is possible.

Some women probably abuse about that and use to send their hate into someone. Some other women, just want to feel free from that.

There are sick women and sick men out there.
 

B80

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 18, 2017
Messages
926
Reaction score
675
Muscular women are a turn off. They don't look feminine.

I think the soccer player build is perfect. Like Morgan Brian for example. Toned in the right areas, nice legs, not overtly muscular like some women gym rats are now. Some men are attracted to women with huge muscles.

How muscular are you talking? Women that aren't taking growth hormone/roids generally dont/can't get that muscular as they don't produce enough testosterone or eat enough of the right food consistently.

Women simply can't turn into Arnie by weight training for a while. Hell, a lot of men barely put on muscle when training, for one reason or another.
 

bat soup

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2020
Messages
4,210
Reaction score
4,701
Age
46
On my local news station just so a promo for the story tonight on it. About female only gyms so women don't have to worry about men looking at them why working out. Of course the commercial makes it seem like guys are pervs.

Reminds me of that court case like 10 years ago. Some lady was suing the dentist or something she worked for because of "sexual harassment" and the judge said a comment about women wearing revealing clothing and they should expect guys to look if they do.
How about men-only cigar lounges so that men don't have to worry about getting fleeced when they go out for a drink?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

jimwho

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2020
Messages
730
Reaction score
737
Age
67
Yes, they’ve existed for decades now, Curves gym for women opened in 1992, they’ve been through some ups, downs, and closures, but there’s one operating here in my town, and they still had 367 franchise locations a couple years ago…
An old girlfriend of mine years ago owned a Curves. I went in there numerous times for her (I'm a plumber) to trick out her lunchroom with nice fixtures. They were "ALL" over weight girls. Lots of dancing and they seemed to be having a good time. So I thought it was a weight loss kind of joint.
 

Billtx49

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 23, 2013
Messages
5,989
Reaction score
5,410
Location
DFW
They were "ALL" over weight girls. Lots of dancing and they seemed to be having a good time. So I thought it was a weight loss kind of joint.
Exactly. The fat azz girls club. They could have cared less about toned abs etc.
Group treadmill exposure for weight loss in an anonymous environment …
It was named Curves for a reason.
 

xplt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 16, 2019
Messages
519
Reaction score
471
How muscular are you talking? Women that aren't taking growth hormone/roids generally dont/can't get that muscular as they don't produce enough testosterone or eat enough of the right food consistently.

Women simply can't turn into Arnie by weight training for a while. Hell, a lot of men barely put on muscle when training, for one reason or another.
Correct. My last girlfriend was a true gym freak. She's training for 10+ years and does competitive amateur bikini/bodybuilding contests. When she's not in competitive form, she has just an awesome trained body. The competitive form with much less bodyfat and the muscles popping out was not my thing, because she naturally became kind of edgy and masculine in the face - but only because of the little bodyfat.

But with the right amount of bodyfat and natural training no woman will become masculine from lifting weights
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,638
Reaction score
780
Age
42
Exactly. The fat azz girls club. They could have cared less about toned abs etc.
Group treadmill exposure for weight loss in an anonymous environment …
Why not just join somewhere like Planet Fitness that's cheap if you're just doing cardio? Besides, those large chain gyms you see lots of fatties mixed in so who cares if someone sees you're fat.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,638
Reaction score
780
Age
42
Ask the women that join women only gyms for the privacy factor and support they think they need…
I just don't see the issue if you're fat. I mean I wouldn't be looking at them anyway! I see lots of fat people when I went to the gym. At least they're attempting to lose weight instead of just sitting around.

The last chain gym I belonged to had people of all ages in a busy area I lived in. Even the hot chicks I never noticed men gawking a lot. Most these days at the gym are too busy glued to their phones and ear buds watching something while doing cardio.
 

Bingo-Player

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2014
Messages
3,638
Reaction score
4,363
Location
uk
It's just a marketing gimmick though will never last

We all know most women love being checked out as much as we love checking them out....that's the main reason they even go to the gym in the first place

the girls in my gym, short of wearing lingerie couldn't dress anymore seductively if they wanted too , they wear leggings a size too small and sports bras that look like bikini tops

I actually train a lot better when they are around i think it produces more testosterone

Was training Sunday morning and there was a brunette there with the best a$$ i have seen in a long time , coincidently also had a very good chest session
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,638
Reaction score
780
Age
42
The story aired, here is the text to it.

I call BS. I've been a member at 3 different gyms over the years including one in my hometown that has a lot of younger women working out. I've never seen this type of constant harassment this broad is describing here. usually the men keep to themselves unless they know the person.

Women exaggerate stuff all the time. She might have been hit on twice in a few years.

More women report being harassed while working out - NBC2 News (nbc-2.com)
 

devilkingx2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 9, 2013
Messages
4,521
Reaction score
2,229
Location
NYC
Female only spaces are a good thing because all the lesbians, man haters, married chicks, feminists, etc. Will go there and more of the women in the normal people spaces will be fair game
 

firstbornunicorn

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 2, 2020
Messages
782
Reaction score
712
Age
33
Most women I know who go to the gym admit they hope to meet a guy at the gym and even go to more expensive/exclusive gyms in order to meet guys that are more well off. The available ones won't be going to women-only gyms. But if my wife/girlfriend went to a women only gym? I'd be ok with that.

What's the problem? Want to cry a little bit?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Top