"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Rise Of AFC'ism

Nine Breaker

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What the hell is wrong with you?

That is a serious question. What is wrong with you? Obviously there is something that isn't quite right if you are here scouring these pages for helpful tips. But the REAL question at hand here is this - why do you deny who you are?

YOU ARE A MAN.

Those words don't seem to mean anything these days, but there was a time when that 3-letter word still meant something...

Think back to many years ago. Any other period in history is fine. The Dark Ages maybe? Or what about the Imperial Age? It doesn't really matter which period in history you look at, because it all had one thing in common - man was dominant. We were the unquestioned leaders of the human race. We made the great leaps and bounds forward for our species, and most of all, the concept of "dating" was simple.

When you wanted something - you went out and GOT it.

Very simple. There wasn't any "Am I good enough for her" nonsense in those days. You wouldn't find any so-called "nice guys" desperately finding a way to prove themselves to women back then, and if you did - it was strictly a minority. A man was strong, he knew how powerful he was, and he also knew that if he didn't get what he wanted - he would be without it.

So, what happened? What has apparantly doomed the men of this planet into thinking they are second-rate to women? What has transformed the STRONG into pathetic AFC's who ignore their rightful place at the front of humanity?

Ever heard the phrase "Give 'em an inch, and they take the mile"? Well, that is what happened. Equal rights marches led women towards this annoying concept called "feminism" (bla bla bla), resulting in the beginning of the end of man's dominance. I am not saying that women should not have equal rights as men - they are entitled to that but during this whole "episode", men lost more than they bargained for. During this time, men started being TOLD how they should act, think, sound, walk, talk, and treat women. Basically, we were handing over the reigns to all womankind and letting THEM have a go at being the leaders in the dating field.

All of a sudden, we were being TOLD what we could and couldn't do as men. This image of what women "wanted" in a man led us into the dawn of a new breed of spineless, passive, and all around "nice" guy - the AFC.

Luckily for you, you have managed to find this website. You have found one of very few resources that encourage a man to be a REAL MAN and stop taking the back-seat to womankind. You have leant all about the tricks and tactics of the dating game here, that confidence will be your saving grace - and you are in control. In short, you have learnt how to take back the reigns from women.

Ironically, this has been common knowledge among men for countless centuries. Men have ALWAYS exhibited confidence, strength, perseverance, skill, and a horde of other characteristics that made them great. That is, until recent times, when many have been led astray by women, who will only confuse you and leave you lost and alone.

The time has come for you to forsake your Nice-Guy image, and reclaim your rightful place as a real man, like those of centuries ago. Do not be afraid of treading on a few toes (or a few women) in order for you to get what/who you want out of life. The only advantage of the spread of AFC'ism is that YOU shall have less competition - for YOU are the Real Man and thus are the superior, as you should have always been.

When it comes to the pursuit of women, do not forget what you truly are - A REAL MAN!!!

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Since the moment of your birth, you have been destined to die. Nothing you can ever do will change this from happening.

However, you CAN change what will happen from now until then, but only if you dare to try.

DO YOU DARE?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Killer post Nine Breaker! Truer words have never been spoken. This deserves to be in the DJ Bible IMO.

The evidence of this is so clear it amazes me. Women through reinforcement of AFC nice guy chumps have themselves on a pedestal. They truly expect that a guy will have them on a pedestal from the start. They think you'll never walk away! That they are a princess and the very best you can do, the only girl you can get! It's crazy!

Walk away from her if she is playing games, lying, or making you wait, or trying to use sex with her to manipulate you into grovelling so she'll be in total control. If she offers her 'friendship' after she knows you have been interested but still let you pursue, reject her offer, that you aren't her friend and to have a nice life. Walk, and don't contact her. Do this and you'll see that they truly do have themselves on a pedestal, and expect you to have them on one too. It'll blow their damn mind!
 

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There should definitely be more threads like this one.
4½ thumbs up my man.
 

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I've been looking for people who can relate to this stuff for a long time. Great post! :cool:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bump
 

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dang, good post
 

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makes me wonder haw much more good stuff like this is barried in the middle of thousands and thausands of usless threds.
 

Don of Truth

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Originally posted by Nine Breaker
YOU ARE A MAN.
yeah, a man without a job ! :(

and a crappy car !

the ladies love me ! :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This reminds me of a line from Fight Club:

"We're a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need."
 

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This is great. Perfect. Exactly what I needed.
 
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