Hi guys i have a question regarding my 'state of mind'
Last weekend i was invited to my first clubbing experience. About 20 minutes in a began to loosen up and i kissed for the first time, 30 minutes later I kissed another girl! later that night i had my first full 'make out' needless to say i was happy.
My attitude was that I i had never met these girls before and so had nothing to lose, i just went for it and got the results.
Today i had the chance to kiss again, i blew my opportunity because i did not feel 100% confident she would go ahead with it. It seemed obvious as she had been continually asking me if i was 'coming with her'... infront of my mates aswell!.
So as we walked down the stairs of school and went outside i was ready for the move but i couldn't. I just kept using CAF instead of taking it to the next stage and before i knew it she told me that her 'Mum was parked over there'
How do i get myself in a state of mind so that i feel like i can kiss her anytime i want?
I have told myself that she 'wants it as much as i does' and this has worked. but does anyone have any examples of how to get yourself into that '100% confident she digs me and wants this' mentality.
i have another chance tomorrow as we are both involved in a drama club for younger pupils after school and so i would appreciate any info ASAP!
(BTW this girl has been asking me for the last week what i am doing at lunch times and if i'll go to some clubs with her, as well as the look and the hair playing ect... so i'm pretty sure she's interested)
Thanks in advance for any advice.
Last weekend i was invited to my first clubbing experience. About 20 minutes in a began to loosen up and i kissed for the first time, 30 minutes later I kissed another girl! later that night i had my first full 'make out' needless to say i was happy.
My attitude was that I i had never met these girls before and so had nothing to lose, i just went for it and got the results.
Today i had the chance to kiss again, i blew my opportunity because i did not feel 100% confident she would go ahead with it. It seemed obvious as she had been continually asking me if i was 'coming with her'... infront of my mates aswell!.
So as we walked down the stairs of school and went outside i was ready for the move but i couldn't. I just kept using CAF instead of taking it to the next stage and before i knew it she told me that her 'Mum was parked over there'
How do i get myself in a state of mind so that i feel like i can kiss her anytime i want?
I have told myself that she 'wants it as much as i does' and this has worked. but does anyone have any examples of how to get yourself into that '100% confident she digs me and wants this' mentality.
i have another chance tomorrow as we are both involved in a drama club for younger pupils after school and so i would appreciate any info ASAP!
(BTW this girl has been asking me for the last week what i am doing at lunch times and if i'll go to some clubs with her, as well as the look and the hair playing ect... so i'm pretty sure she's interested)
Thanks in advance for any advice.