"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The right approach to romance

SmoothTalker

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Just wanted to share a quick thing I learned recently about romantic moves. I've seen quite a few questions around here about what sort of romantic moves you can pull to impress girls, and most answers say none.

What I've found is that a romantic move can go over very well, but it has to be done right and for the right reasons.

The keys are to be confident in your delivery, don't take it too seriously, and do it because YOU want to, not because you are trying to impress her.

Girls dig romance, it's fun, and makes them feel special. The reason most guys flop here is just because they are supplicating and trying to impress her when they're doing theirs.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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K2000kidd

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I'll save romance for marriage and movies
I've learned there are three things a guy
needs be in the early stages of dating
if he expects results: fun, flirtatious, and fkng her
 
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