"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The right approach to romance

SmoothTalker

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Just wanted to share a quick thing I learned recently about romantic moves. I've seen quite a few questions around here about what sort of romantic moves you can pull to impress girls, and most answers say none.

What I've found is that a romantic move can go over very well, but it has to be done right and for the right reasons.

The keys are to be confident in your delivery, don't take it too seriously, and do it because YOU want to, not because you are trying to impress her.

Girls dig romance, it's fun, and makes them feel special. The reason most guys flop here is just because they are supplicating and trying to impress her when they're doing theirs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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K2000kidd

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I'll save romance for marriage and movies
I've learned there are three things a guy
needs be in the early stages of dating
if he expects results: fun, flirtatious, and fkng her
 
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