Hi guys this is the follow up story to the ***** who dumped me, she's back again to make me feel bad and fustrated with myself
while i was in msn, i forgot to block her emails, she started to ask me if i was ok, i said i'm fine and everything is better then ever, the she asked what are you doing in life, i said i'm busy, i have more time to be with my friends and ppl that love me as i am, now if u will excuse i got important stuff to do. i basically ignored her... she was pissed and she started asking if i knew some email and some questions about it, i didn't reply and told her to basically dont bother me
here's what she said
She: Hey, u are being plain stupid, i don't wanna argue with you
Me: I dont have time to argue with you
She. Ok, you wanna pass to the stupidity mode while i just wanna be your friend, ok then do it, but i just wanna you to know this: you basically told me now that i dont mean anything to you anymore and that's disgusting, because to me, you mean a LOT, but i dumped you and now you dont wanna admit that iam not indifferent to to u, u know better than me, that what we had as good for the both of us, you don't wanna admit it so im not going to say nothing more. Why can't we be friends like 2 normal people?
Me: You lost your chance, now back off and get out of my world you are history. avoid all contact with me.
She: I missed my chance? ( then here she started to try to hurt my feelings and saying stuff that are not true ). Your friends told me that you were too childish to speak to me after i've dumped you, you really are a loser, a useless guy, no one respects you, not me, not even your friends, nor anyone. You really are a very sad person. It hurts to be dumped doesnt it, i can feel your pain ( laughs ) then she blocked me.
Me: Me, again being stupid, go to her with another msn and tell her to **** off, calling fat ugly *****, i dont want you for sex, nor friendship, dont ever contact me again. You really think i can't live without you don't you, well, you are gonna have a surprise. There are plenty of fish in the sea, girls 30 x better than you are, now get the **** outta my life.
She: You really are stupid, i don't want sex you, i dont want u back, i dont want anything from you, i just wanted to be your friend thats all.I can really have better guys than you do.
Me: blocked her in all my other emails.
Well, this is truly what happened, translated from portuguese to english, sorry if english is not my mother language and for the lenght of the message. Somebody here told in another topic this happens quite a bit, you ex coming back just to **** with your head, and trying to put you down. Well guys, what she said hurted me and its still hurting me, but i think i fought her mind game the best i could...
any comments would be appreciated
ps: btw a hot girl some days ago told me while in web cam i was cute, some others said i was not their type. Yesterday i went clubbing with a friend and from a group of 3 girls this particular attractive curly hair girl was always checking me and giggling and talking to her friends ears, she was even dancing side by side with me and her and my friend. i dont know if this happen to you, if it means anything or not, but in my head i think she digged me. i will never know that cuz my levels of self-esteem are still down and i was afraid, i admit, i was afraid of rejection. but i will be there the next saturday and monday i will hit the gym since a long time ( 1 year ) hyatus, also i'm taking my drivers licence.
thanks to you all
while i was in msn, i forgot to block her emails, she started to ask me if i was ok, i said i'm fine and everything is better then ever, the she asked what are you doing in life, i said i'm busy, i have more time to be with my friends and ppl that love me as i am, now if u will excuse i got important stuff to do. i basically ignored her... she was pissed and she started asking if i knew some email and some questions about it, i didn't reply and told her to basically dont bother me
here's what she said
She: Hey, u are being plain stupid, i don't wanna argue with you
Me: I dont have time to argue with you
She. Ok, you wanna pass to the stupidity mode while i just wanna be your friend, ok then do it, but i just wanna you to know this: you basically told me now that i dont mean anything to you anymore and that's disgusting, because to me, you mean a LOT, but i dumped you and now you dont wanna admit that iam not indifferent to to u, u know better than me, that what we had as good for the both of us, you don't wanna admit it so im not going to say nothing more. Why can't we be friends like 2 normal people?
Me: You lost your chance, now back off and get out of my world you are history. avoid all contact with me.
She: I missed my chance? ( then here she started to try to hurt my feelings and saying stuff that are not true ). Your friends told me that you were too childish to speak to me after i've dumped you, you really are a loser, a useless guy, no one respects you, not me, not even your friends, nor anyone. You really are a very sad person. It hurts to be dumped doesnt it, i can feel your pain ( laughs ) then she blocked me.
Me: Me, again being stupid, go to her with another msn and tell her to **** off, calling fat ugly *****, i dont want you for sex, nor friendship, dont ever contact me again. You really think i can't live without you don't you, well, you are gonna have a surprise. There are plenty of fish in the sea, girls 30 x better than you are, now get the **** outta my life.
She: You really are stupid, i don't want sex you, i dont want u back, i dont want anything from you, i just wanted to be your friend thats all.I can really have better guys than you do.
Me: blocked her in all my other emails.
Well, this is truly what happened, translated from portuguese to english, sorry if english is not my mother language and for the lenght of the message. Somebody here told in another topic this happens quite a bit, you ex coming back just to **** with your head, and trying to put you down. Well guys, what she said hurted me and its still hurting me, but i think i fought her mind game the best i could...
any comments would be appreciated
ps: btw a hot girl some days ago told me while in web cam i was cute, some others said i was not their type. Yesterday i went clubbing with a friend and from a group of 3 girls this particular attractive curly hair girl was always checking me and giggling and talking to her friends ears, she was even dancing side by side with me and her and my friend. i dont know if this happen to you, if it means anything or not, but in my head i think she digged me. i will never know that cuz my levels of self-esteem are still down and i was afraid, i admit, i was afraid of rejection. but i will be there the next saturday and monday i will hit the gym since a long time ( 1 year ) hyatus, also i'm taking my drivers licence.
thanks to you all
