"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the Return of the Dragon,seeking help from his brethren

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DraGon_luv

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WOW! Its been so long sicne i posted i OWE so much to this site,

But after Dating this HB9 for a year, we finaly broke up,

theres been all these little thigns here and there, but all and all i havent called her since we broke up,

i am trying so HARD to do the dj thing and jsut not call i havent called for like 1 month in half, i have dreams of calling her and just today i had an urge but i trying to stick too my principle and move on..... its jsut so hard,

I was a DJ throuout this entire relationship towards the end though i got a little to content and got lazy with myself and the relationship, and stop putting effort in.

my BAD , but i am a man and accept that fact and am trying to move on but it so damn hard, this girl think and probly still does think i dont give a f about the break up, but deep down inside i do ,,, i sorta confused,

you guys have always Guided me in the past, i now return to the TEMPLE seeking guidence


Dragon Love
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Welcome back man,
At least you are man enough to admit that you take responsibility for your actions.
 
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*Canned response*

In the mean time, keep getting out there and getting numbers and dates. Focus on your life.
 
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DraGon_luv

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Since i broke up with my girl i ahve goten 20 numbers dated mutiple girls, and slept with 1 girl, had a lap dance, made out with 3 girls, and i still somtimes have feelings for her i fight THEM withall my DJ powers, its hard...

for the first time ina month in a half.... i got internet back today ,,,,,, also the first day i talk to her... on msn.....

there chat seem to go alright knock on wood...

i dont know whats next i will keep ya'll posted on my story....


This will see if the DJ tecnique of not calling after the break up works or not..... if it screws me over,.... atleast i may be able to help others,,,,,, with my story
 
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How are we suppose to provide you with feedback if no feed is given - what happened??

Never take back a woman who left you - she is probably on an another's man jock already - if she wasn't already when she left you!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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