"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=113926

My results to this link.

So i see the girl with one of her girlfriends I was with 4 of my friends we all talking about her. NOw they all seen her look at me from time to time so they all convinced me to talk to her. I thought about the now or never and all the tips i was givin so I walked up to her and her friend (luckily on her side) I stared at her and when she relized it she started laughing and blushing. We get to talkin introduced myself because I entered her world unexpected today. Soon I got to talking about hooking up. (The good part)

i asked her did she have someone. She said ya he dont go to the school. I thought it was bull**** but **** it. I asked her would she go with me. She gave me the maybe thing, you know when us men ask anotha man is this girl fine and we give that lil hand wave like she iight? she gave me that meaning maybe. I didn't break I was in the zone now lol. I asked her would she break up with her man for me? She gave me the hand thing again! I almost broke then so now fa the rest of her life she might get ****ed with. I no i didnt hurt my chances because I seen her later and she still giving me the looks and stuff. I did realize that she got quiet sometimes during the convo like as if she was thinking. And a time her face just got real still like if she was thinking on what i was sayin but I wanna no did i do good or bad what should i work on and should i keep trying?

Thanx for all the help real talk.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You've approached her. She knows you are interested. I dont know if you did kino on her yet ( you should definitly if you havent already). But do not ask her about her "bf" do not ask if she would break up with him for you... Instead keep doing what you're doing except stop making it so difficult. It is easier than it seems, really it is.

But really, I'd say to back off for now. Let her coem back to you. Make her think "Does he still like me?". Ignore her once ina while. And trust me on this one, do not go any farther than what you have just told her. Oh and, read the DJ Bible, it seems you still dont know what you're doing.
 
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i think right now she just wants to lead u on and she has a good relationship. So next her.
 
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.....I'm going with the first choice. And im going to read the DJ bible and go to church lol
 
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