"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

The Results

Dearl

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 1, 2006
Messages
79
Reaction score
0
http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=113926

My results to this link.

So i see the girl with one of her girlfriends I was with 4 of my friends we all talking about her. NOw they all seen her look at me from time to time so they all convinced me to talk to her. I thought about the now or never and all the tips i was givin so I walked up to her and her friend (luckily on her side) I stared at her and when she relized it she started laughing and blushing. We get to talkin introduced myself because I entered her world unexpected today. Soon I got to talking about hooking up. (The good part)

i asked her did she have someone. She said ya he dont go to the school. I thought it was bull**** but **** it. I asked her would she go with me. She gave me the maybe thing, you know when us men ask anotha man is this girl fine and we give that lil hand wave like she iight? she gave me that meaning maybe. I didn't break I was in the zone now lol. I asked her would she break up with her man for me? She gave me the hand thing again! I almost broke then so now fa the rest of her life she might get ****ed with. I no i didnt hurt my chances because I seen her later and she still giving me the looks and stuff. I did realize that she got quiet sometimes during the convo like as if she was thinking. And a time her face just got real still like if she was thinking on what i was sayin but I wanna no did i do good or bad what should i work on and should i keep trying?

Thanx for all the help real talk.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

IceCream

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 9, 2006
Messages
109
Reaction score
0
Location
California USA
You've approached her. She knows you are interested. I dont know if you did kino on her yet ( you should definitly if you havent already). But do not ask her about her "bf" do not ask if she would break up with him for you... Instead keep doing what you're doing except stop making it so difficult. It is easier than it seems, really it is.

But really, I'd say to back off for now. Let her coem back to you. Make her think "Does he still like me?". Ignore her once ina while. And trust me on this one, do not go any farther than what you have just told her. Oh and, read the DJ Bible, it seems you still dont know what you're doing.
 

Zerotwoonenine

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2006
Messages
450
Reaction score
5
Location
London
i think right now she just wants to lead u on and she has a good relationship. So next her.
 

Dearl

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 1, 2006
Messages
79
Reaction score
0
.....I'm going with the first choice. And im going to read the DJ bible and go to church lol
 
Top