"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The requirements of a happy life...

BadsnakeUK

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This is a thread for people to add some of the things a man needs in his life to be happy and fulfilled. For me they are:

1. A challenging and rewarding job with scope for continued promotion
2. Intellectual stimulation - never stop learning!
3. Regular physical exercise - at least 3 times a week
4. Music - playing and listening
5. Martial arts - a way of competing and getting gradually better at something
6. Meditation
7. A good social life
8. Good family relations
9. Enough money to be comfortable and be able to do the above

Feel free to add your own...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonJuan11

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BadsnakeUK said:
This is a thread for people to add some of the things a man needs in his life to be happy and fulfilled. For me they are:

1. A challenging and rewarding job with scope for continued promotion
2. Intellectual stimulation - never stop learning!
3. Regular physical exercise - at least 3 times a week
4. Music - playing and listening
5. Martial arts - a way of competing and getting gradually better at something
6. Meditation
7. A good social life
8. Good family relations
9. Enough money to be comfortable and be able to do the above

Feel free to add your own...
I would put 8,7,9 and numbers 1,2,3. Rest seem good.
 

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Well..you appeared to have omitted women from that list...

But overall, that pretty much sums it up for me.

I might add some activity in which we share what we have learned with others too.
And gaining insight from a postive mentor.


Good job.
 

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I noticed the same thing Interceptor did. If you live a life without women, you might as well be gay.

Another thing that is missing is laughter. A life without laughing is not happy at all.
 

BadsnakeUK

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Yeah I deliberately didn't put women on the list. Not because I'm gay :crackup: , but because they come and go and can't be relied upon to make you happy. What I'm trying to establish is the things a man needs besides women that will make his life good regardless of whatever other sh*t comes his way.

Mine are in no particular order BTW.

Any others you can think of?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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