"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The requirements of a happy life...

BadsnakeUK

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This is a thread for people to add some of the things a man needs in his life to be happy and fulfilled. For me they are:

1. A challenging and rewarding job with scope for continued promotion
2. Intellectual stimulation - never stop learning!
3. Regular physical exercise - at least 3 times a week
4. Music - playing and listening
5. Martial arts - a way of competing and getting gradually better at something
6. Meditation
7. A good social life
8. Good family relations
9. Enough money to be comfortable and be able to do the above

Feel free to add your own...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DonJuan11

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BadsnakeUK said:
This is a thread for people to add some of the things a man needs in his life to be happy and fulfilled. For me they are:

1. A challenging and rewarding job with scope for continued promotion
2. Intellectual stimulation - never stop learning!
3. Regular physical exercise - at least 3 times a week
4. Music - playing and listening
5. Martial arts - a way of competing and getting gradually better at something
6. Meditation
7. A good social life
8. Good family relations
9. Enough money to be comfortable and be able to do the above

Feel free to add your own...
I would put 8,7,9 and numbers 1,2,3. Rest seem good.
 

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Well..you appeared to have omitted women from that list...

But overall, that pretty much sums it up for me.

I might add some activity in which we share what we have learned with others too.
And gaining insight from a postive mentor.


Good job.
 

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I noticed the same thing Interceptor did. If you live a life without women, you might as well be gay.

Another thing that is missing is laughter. A life without laughing is not happy at all.
 

BadsnakeUK

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Yeah I deliberately didn't put women on the list. Not because I'm gay :crackup: , but because they come and go and can't be relied upon to make you happy. What I'm trying to establish is the things a man needs besides women that will make his life good regardless of whatever other sh*t comes his way.

Mine are in no particular order BTW.

Any others you can think of?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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