"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is not saying there is no truth in the red pill. There is no denying that if you dont know whats going on women can royaly f#ck you.

But then we have red pill nerds.. guys who walk around saying dumb stuff like

"Women are only good for sex"
"I only hang with women when I want sex"
"All women do is use men"
"THEY ARE ALL SO EVIL!!!.. but their ok when they give me sex:confused:"

Etc etc..

Like really dude, im convinced some of the regular posters have aspergers.. you have never had a female pal do anything nice for you with no agenda? Ever?

Buy you something?
Woman stranger hold a door while your carrying something heavy?

Let you over in traffic?

I mean for f*cks sake.. please dont take this red pill stuff to the extreme..i mean your mom is a woman too for christs sake
(That is not an invite to vent how your mom sucks)
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is not saying there is no truth in the red pill. There is no denying that if you dont know whats going on women can royaly f#ck you.

But then we have red pill nerds.. guys who walk around saying dumb stuff like

"Women are only good for sex"
"I only hang with women when I want sex"
"All women do is use men"
"THEY ARE ALL SO EVIL!!!.. but their ok when they give me sex:confused:"

Etc etc..

Like really dude, im convinced some of the regular posters have aspergers.. you have never had a female pal do anything nice for you with no agenda? Ever?

Buy you something?
Woman stranger hold a door while your carrying something heavy?

Let you over in traffic?

I mean for f*cks sake.. please dont take this red pill stuff to the extreme..i mean your mom is a woman too for christs sake
(That is not an invite to vent how your mom sucks)
Bro I think you are confusing the issues. Red pill is not about insulting woman or putting them down. It's about doing what is in your best interest at all times and not supplicating to women.

You can be red pill and have women buy you things.
You can be red pill and have them open the door, but
You can't be red pill and supplicate in order to get some sex.
You can't be red pill and sacrifice what you believe in to get some sex.

Think the main point with red pill is always do what is best for yourself and not look for external/outside factors for validation.
 

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Bro I think you are confusing the issues. Red pill is not about insulting woman or putting them down. It's about doing what is in your best interest at all times and not supplicating to women.

You can be red pill and have women buy you things.
You can be red pill and have them open the door, but
You can't be red pill and supplicate in order to get some sex.
You can't be red pill and sacrifice what you believe in to get some sex.

Think the main point with red pill is always do what is best for yourself and not look for external/outside factors for validation.
Im not refering to all, Im refering to nutjobs who take it too far, by saying things like
"women have no use to them besides sex" like the ridiculous kid who posted right before you did.
 

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Women have no use besides sex, support, companionship and an italian rennaissence concept call 'divertimento'. On the same fashion, men have no use to women beside sex, providing, security and comfort. Does this sounds inhuman? Maybr, but the redpill analyzes humans through a biological lens, not an humanist one.
The problem is, many women nowadays have so ridiculous high standards, and many men are so faggy, that these get mad when they don't get what females have to offer. They get bitter and spit **** like what you say. And, to be honest, some of us don't even NEED anything besides sex, although I recognize that support and femenine companionship is something worthy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I disagree @CuddleJunkie .. womens standards are not high.
Infact womens standards are at an all time low.
To get laid all you need is:

A neat haircut
A trendy outfit
And social proof

They dont really need providers anymore

@PeasantPlayer
He can feel what he wants. I didn't make the thread just for him.
 

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Yup, and on top of that, being a misogynist is counter-productive. Bitterness is a major turn off to women.
 

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I disagree @CuddleJunkie .. womens standards are not high.
Infact womens standards are at an all time low.
To get laid all you need is:

A neat haircut
A trendy outfit
And social proof

They dont really need providers anymore

@PeasantPlayer
He can feel what he wants. I didn't make the thread just for him.
Providers get used still these days... As spare wallets. They might get to get d1ck wet too, but women will try to game around it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cola.. what exactly is the point of this thread? Sounds like some white knight sh!t. You're trying to shame some of the men on here for only caring about sex? For what purpose? Why do YOU care if some men only want to sport f*ck women and run?

How long have you had oneitis? How long have you been pedestalizing a certain woman in your life? I ask these questions because I know from experience that most men get soft when they have a special woman they like. The stuff we post on SoSuave goes against elevating women.. so you are probably trying to validated your oneitis by making the red pill sound "extreme".

The red pill is reality. I know Disney is more "fun" to believe though.
 

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Cola,

Yes, I highly recommend reading what he has contributed to the manosphere. His understanding of women and female behavior is second to none. My experience with reading the blog has been a series of "aha" moments. He has given me an understanding of why women do what they do. Prior to reading his work, I was constantly confounded with women and the things they did. Not anymore.

Along with the above, it will give you an understanding of the FI (feminine imperative) and how much it permeates society.

I would suggest starting with his early stuff. Your profile indicates that you're a young guy, so you can benefit even more than a guy like me who didn't take the red pill until I was in my 50s.

Enjoy the read if you decide to check it out.

-Augustus-
 

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Nothing is black and white.... red or blue even with women.

It's suppose to be a team play, I agree some stuff when you are on the dating scene does open your eyes to the ''dj bible - red pill - women anger''.

However, if you are blinded by that, you gonna skip alot of the goods. Funny, negative stuff happens to negative people.

Nothing is black and white, especially ladies.

But you should always have : Options (plate or girls to date in your pipeline until you get LTR), Strong Frame, build a life outside of the ladies, don't expect anything from anyone, the less you care the more you succeed in the dating field, Passion is for your hobbies and work, and the LTR. Have a positive outlook on life.

Be strong and beyond the foolishness.

Worst case: Buy a Virtual Reality Porn movie or a sex-robot
 

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The Red Pill isn't inherently misogynistic, but it attracts a lot of them, which is why it's such a target to Fem Nazis and Misandrists.

Nobody is responsible for your life but you. That's intuitive, right? So make yourself your own mental point of origin. When you do that, you become more attractive to everyone, both platonically and romantically.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cola, stop being an attention wh0re.

Your threads are getting more and more "contrarian" for the sake of it.
 

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The Wachovski brothers (now sisters) sponsored a short story contest with a small prize, so they could steal other people's ideas. The Matrix was actually written by a black woman in Atlanta, who got paid a couple hundred bucks for it. Then the Wachovskis made a movie franchise out of it, and hundreds of millions for themselves. Somehow, a metaphor created by a woman and two trannies ended up becoming a metaphor for being a man, which is why I have never taken it that seriously.
 

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Cola, stop being an attention wh0re.

Your threads are getting more and more "contrarian" for the sake of it.
:rolleyes: because i go against the mold?
And offer pragmatic advice instead of misogony?
Cant hate what you want to attract, thats oxymoronic.
 
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I've seen a lot of your threads and they just seem to confuse the matter even more than simplify it. You are also contradictory in different threads. Just my observation. It is confusing to me.
 

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I've seen a lot of your threads and they just seem to confuse the matter even more than simplify it. You are also contradictory in different threads. Just my observation. It is confusing to me.
Example? Dont jump on my haters bandwagon many of them are not really getting girls off the forum.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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