"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The reason YOU are not successful

No.Danny

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You care too much.


It's that simple. This forums likes to go into ridiculous topics and specifics and intangibles but the more you care the more you'll fail. Once you reach s certain level of knowledge you'll be able to appreciate this statement. The universe gives you exactly what you want. You're scared of getting rejected, you'll get rejected.
And with this I conclude the greatest thread ever. One day you'll be able to reply here and be like "yeah it's that simple"
Goodbye SoSuave
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GetBetter

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Haha I love what you said. I agree to this to certain point though. You have to care because caring is good and it helps you achieve next level, but know at the same time that you are more than enough and you are doing whatever it is you are doing or going to do to just make yourself better for yourself; because you love it.
 
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