"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Reason Men are AFCs

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I found this on some chick's website, this is the perfect example of some bull**** that women try to pull, although I do agree with not cussing at them but it should be a two way street. According to this chick boys can't do these things but girls can? Because, they are "sensitive creatures".

< Boys are such morons. Look,heres the rules (and there's no questions or 'buts' about them...this is just the way it is and NO we dont have to be the same way towards you bc we are sensitive creatures and you all are thick-skinned):

1.YOU MAY NOT CUSS AT US OUT OF ANGER

2.YOU MAY NOT MAKE US FEEL GUILTY FOR THINGS THAT ARE BEYOND OUR CONTROL

3.IF YOU'RE NOT INTERESTED, JUST SAY SO. THE LESS TIME WE SPEND TRYING TO READ YOUR MIND THE MORE TIME WE CAN ACTUALLY SPEND LIVING.

4.DON'T TOUCH US PHYSICALLY. EVER. UNLESS IT'S OUT OF PURE, UNDIVIDED LOVE AND AFFECTION--RESPECTFUL AND LUST-FREE.

5.IF I LEAVE MY PHONE IN THE CAR IT DOESNT MEAN I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU. IF I DON'T CALL YOU BACK AFTER SEEING THAT YOU CALLED WHILE MY PHONE WAS IN THE CAR......THEN............THEN (!) YOU CAN THINK THAT I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU.

6.OUR FRIENDS SHOULD ALWAYS BE YOUR FRIENDS TOO. IF NOT, IT JUST WONT WORK OUT (OKAY, THAT ONE WE SHOULD FOLLOW TOO)

7.IF WE WALK AWAY, WE STILL WANT TO TALK TO YOU. WE'RE JUST SO ANGRY OR APPAULED OR HURT THAT WE JUST CAN'T FIND THE WORDS TO INITIATE CONVERSATION AT THAT POINT. YOU SHOULD BE STRONG ENOUGH AND MATURE ENOUGH TO COME TO US AND JUST START TALKING...AND BE NICE. AND SINCERE >

women like this are doing the world a disservice.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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It's the age-old "Double Standard"... nothing more.


Luckily, we know better... most guys don't.
 

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I feel fkin angry at the bytch who wrote it..goddamn *****s...sombody should print this stuff and stick it up her stupid azz! :mad:
 

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Sounds like the woman that wrote the piece is trying to make AFC's even more AFC so it's easier to pick out the real man; like it isn't easy enough already ;)

Eyes_Of_Fire
 

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
It's the age-old "Double Standard"... nothing more.


Luckily, we know better... most guys don't.
^^true dat cuzz....us me gotta flip the script on the women who try to game us fellaz...

its like a 2 way street, but we gotta find the smart road to take...thats real....

holla...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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4.DON'T TOUCH US PHYSICALLY. EVER. UNLESS IT'S OUT OF PURE, UNDIVIDED LOVE AND AFFECTION--RESPECTFUL AND LUST-FREE.

This one is the worst. That is ridiculous. She apparently thinks she is speaking for all women, and sadly, she probably is. But I've broken that rule with every girl I've ever been with. And no woman has ever gotten mad at me for it.
 

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Lacks some intelligence.... that's all...Please don't believe this bytch speaks for all women...
 

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Originally posted by Rockstar
3.IF YOU'RE NOT INTERESTED, JUST SAY SO. THE LESS TIME WE SPEND TRYING TO READ YOUR MIND THE MORE TIME WE CAN ACTUALLY SPEND LIVING.
you would not believe how many times i got burnt with this back in my afc days.

but then i came to this site and realized there's something called an attention wh0re...thank god for this site
 

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Originally posted by Eyes_Of_Fire
Sounds like the woman that wrote the piece is trying to make AFC's even more AFC so it's easier to pick out the real man; like it isn't easy enough already ;)

Eyes_Of_Fire
yea, way to look to the bright side. :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HaHaHa give me 3 hours with her she will be in her bed orgasming out of pure LUST............ Unless shes ugly
 

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Sounds about right. "boys are such morons" yet she seems to have a caps-lock addiction.
 

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1. She probably means to not be verbally abusive.
2. I guess when things don't follow with their manipulative ways, they get upset.
3. That's funny, women never say outloud "I'm not interested" in you while still flirt.
4. Respectful and lust-free touching? Real men are not Gay.
5. (cough, drama, cough)
6. So women don't have a mind of their own?
7. A real man tries to dissociate himself away from negativity.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Rockstar
[B
1.YOU MAY NOT CUSS AT US OUT OF ANGER

2.YOU MAY NOT MAKE US FEEL GUILTY FOR THINGS THAT ARE BEYOND OUR CONTROL

3.IF YOU'RE NOT INTERESTED, JUST SAY SO. THE LESS TIME WE SPEND TRYING TO READ YOUR MIND THE MORE TIME WE CAN ACTUALLY SPEND LIVING.

4.DON'T TOUCH US PHYSICALLY. EVER. UNLESS IT'S OUT OF PURE, UNDIVIDED LOVE AND AFFECTION--RESPECTFUL AND LUST-FREE.

5.IF I LEAVE MY PHONE IN THE CAR IT DOESNT MEAN I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU. IF I DON'T CALL YOU BACK AFTER SEEING THAT YOU CALLED WHILE MY PHONE WAS IN THE CAR......THEN............THEN (!) YOU CAN THINK THAT I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU.

6.OUR FRIENDS SHOULD ALWAYS BE YOUR FRIENDS TOO. IF NOT, IT JUST WONT WORK OUT (OKAY, THAT ONE WE SHOULD FOLLOW TOO)

7.IF WE WALK AWAY, WE STILL WANT TO TALK TO YOU. WE'RE JUST SO ANGRY OR APPAULED OR HURT THAT WE JUST CAN'T FIND THE WORDS TO INITIATE CONVERSATION AT THAT POINT. YOU SHOULD BE STRONG ENOUGH AND MATURE ENOUGH TO COME TO US AND JUST START TALKING...AND BE NICE. AND SINCERE >

women like this are doing the world a disservice. [/B]

1. fcuk i can't
2. your emotions aren't under our control
3. nah
4. yeah right
5. what the fcuk
6. not if your friends are douches
7. "oh please please i'm sorry i made you mad please come talk to me again." ha, no. i'd say it takes more strength to not go track you down.
 

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id love to slap my **** on this bytches face.

its stupid fycking hoes like this who ruin society.

what is she is 18?

get a clue HOE!
 
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