"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The reason I'm so bitter

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I'm speechless..... You've twisted that around worse than a woman would (and completely wasted your time in doing so).

I'm all one for the "red pill", but it still doesn't mean you have to be bitter towards others in such extreme circumstances. I think the worst thing is that you honestly can't even see the point that people are trying to get at. Saying that though, I don't believe for the life of me that you'd follow up on your e-actions if you were put in the same "real life" situation.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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adam225 said:
You've twisted that around worse than a woman would (and completely wasted your time in doing so)
aka you don't understand or didnt understand my original point.:rolleyes:

Well....I tried. Waste of time indeed.
 

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Originally Posted by TheException
Well.....I've found out who has reading comprehension issues.

I did not say "I would dump her"....I said I wouldnt mentally commit to her any longer. Is that such an inflammatory statement?
Sounds like some rationalization a woman has, like how she ill mentally prepare to break up with you, and start dating other people (Just friends, right?).

Why don't you just break up ? Mentally breaking up with some one and staying with them would probably hurt them if they are attached to you. Like a lot. Women do this because they dont have the ability to straight up dump you and have a clean break with out cheating.
 

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Danger said:
Probably the same reason you don't have the fortitude to stop your gf from having "study buddies" over at your place, a mere feet from your bed. Because at your core you are a coward.

Your cowardice forces you to accuse others of "reading comprehension difficulty".
This confirms my conclusion about him. He's just all talk. Deep down he's a weak push over. His girl is most likely getting railed by someone else right now. But then again, I guess it's just karma...
 

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Poon King said:
OP this is the harsh red pill reality of the world that I try to explain to the beta morons on this site with every post. I try to wise them up.. but they want to live in blue pill lala land.

Any man who lives life under blue pill beliefs will walk the earth deaf, dumb and blind relying only on dumb luck. Just like a deaf, dumb and blind man crossing a high way.

When you rely only on luck in life.. you will win occasionally but lose ultimately.

Women DO NOT give a sh!t about men. They never have and they never will. As long as moronic betas keep treating women like oxygen and making them priority #1.. these men will never have any power or control in their lives or relationships. Again.. only dumb luck can help them.

Its not about "hating" women.. its about understanding their true nature. Some men refuse to accept this nature and so they will waste their lives serving women and flushing all their time and money down the toilet to be "pretend successful".

"Pretend successful" is when a beta spends all his time and money living the so-called "American dream": Shiny consumer goods, a wife, a dog, a house and kids. Yet the man's life is empty because he has no power or freedom. He is in debt up to his eyeballs, his wife only f*cks him twice a month, he works 60 hours a week and there is no way out. His time and money is no longer his. It belongs to his employer, his wife, and all the other blood suckers he has formed relationships with to craft this "image" of success.

Shameful sh!t.
Amen brotha.. preaching to the choir!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm sorry to hear about your condition. :(

Do you have any plans on how you want to spend the time you still have?
 

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Fedex said:
I'm sorry to hear about your condition. :(

Do you have any plans on how you want to spend the time you still have?
"Yeah, I thought I'd post on SoSuave for a bit. Maybe see if my threads can degenerate into an off-topic pissing contest... Or I might just jack off for a while."
 

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Lol You're all arguing over the ethics but has anyone seen the real issue?

If you're about to die, why in THE FŪCK are you wasting time posting on internet forums.

You mean to tell me, your time is limited, and you're worried about how to society has fūcked up chicks?

Word? Wow.

What 'terminal illness' do you even have?

Sounds like to me you're really dying of being miserable and bitter and was hoping we'd throw a pity party which you've seemed to accomplished.

No one's entitled to anything. She wasn't obligated to stick with you. There's no moral code that says "oh yeah, 3 years? She can't leave now.' You're born in this world alone, and you die alone. You get what you get, and you try to control what you can control.

She didn't stay cause she didn't want to go through the emotional turmoil and permenant emotional damage she'd sustain from you dying. She was looking out for numero uno. Boo fūcking hoo, wah, wah. Its unfair, she's selfish.

Plot twist: life's unfair, and humans are innately selfish. The worlds screwed up, and we're modern day slaves.

But we can't control that. What we can control, however, is our actions. And I'll be damned if I was terminal and I spent ANY time BÍTCHING on the internet.

Where tf hell some of you guys head at man... Women rule your life so much that you'll spend your last days on a 'Pickup chicks' internet forum?

I'm not disgusted at the chick. I'm disgusted at you.
 
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