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Master Don Juan
THE REAL LOGIC OF MALE/FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
As I browse and read articles concerning the psychology of the relationships between men and women it astounds me, naturally as a reflection of the significance difference in anatomy, considering the vast amount of miscommunication and misunderstanding the two sexes endure through their every day discourses. Built separately, men and women are mirror opposites of one another. Having the most testosterone men have been given the role to provide, protect, and strive for sex. Receiving estrogen, women on the other hand have been given the need for love, acceptance, and a role as nurturer and bearer of children. In retrospect, ever since mankind’s creation a check and balance system has been placed within each sex, each having the ability to adequately fulfill the needs and desires of the other in absolute equality and measure.
..........MALE....FEMALE
GIVES: LOVE <> SEX
NEEDS: SEX <> LOVE
While man possesses the emotional need for sex, woman controls his wants fulfillment. Woman, from the time of her creation and her eminent nature, has been emotionally charged for the reception of love from man. Since people are imperfect carnal beings, the real act and balance of this love/sex relationship becomes distorted and remains deeply unperceived by both sexes until life experiences begin to bring to light the balance and purpose of a true relationship.
CHARACTERISTICS OF MEN AND WOMEN
MEN = QUANTITATIVE
WOMEN = QUALITATIVE
Men, since they have a quantitative outlook, feel the desire to roam about looking for as much interaction with females as one can muster. Mostly since only a small percentage of the male population tends to display true alpha characteristics women, as they are qualitative, tend to only desire a small percentage of the male population; those that have adapted to a dominant lifestyle.
DOMINANT SUBMISSIVE
TAKES <----- GIVES
DOMINANT MEN
Jerks use the naturally lower self-esteem of a woman to dominate her desire for love; thus gaining control of the relationship leaving a woman emotionally starved. In her desperation she caves into his need for sex, disregarding her own wants to satisfy him.
SUBMISSIVE MEN
Unlike jerks, men typically termed nice tend to more freely give love superceding their own wants and needs to the point to where a woman feels satisfied enough to not feel she has to meet a mans natural desire for sex.
When you really have a good look at how dominant and submissive men behave; it’s not hard to understand why jerks seem to be getting all of the sex. Jerks, in their self-deluded lust naturally take control; meanwhile submissive men disregard their masculine emotions and manhood allowing women to gain control of a relationship.
AGRESSION <> ASSERTION <> SUBMISSION
At first sight becoming a jerk may seem like a great idea; a submissive man sees the success of the jerk and the women who loathe and satisfy his desires, needs, wants. He adopts the jerk as his role model practicing and emulating his actions until second nature to him; he learns the power of a dominant state of mind. Though one thing concerns this once submissive man with his newly found dominance; remembering the run-downs and onset of his unsatisfactory emotional state endured through his pattern of submission, he finds a balance of submission and aggression within his interactions towards others.
In truth, neither the jerk nor submissive man really deserves any respect in regards to their actions and motives. Just as a jerk disregards the respect owed to another a submissive man fails to regard his own right to self respect. Thus, the jerk learns that there is a middle ground to his behavior, leading to a new found assertive man.
ASSERTIVE MEN
Assertive men are the best relationship material for a woman; knowing when to act aggressively and when to appropriately submit to authority. For most they value and understand the true meaning of respect to themselves and towards others, and ably maintain a fairly good level of emotional health. Most importantly they develop the ability to timely and accurately gauge when to satisfy a woman’s craving for love and acceptance and yet communicate their own needs to a woman in a way she can fulfill them.
MEN AND LOVE
The majority of men have the misconception that love subjects one person to another, binding them to someone in submission and self-deterioration, but quite contrarily love when given appropriately can be a very powerful and meaningful thing. One can look at the many strong masculine figures that sacrificed themselves throughout history and find the motivation that drove them was typically the same; that being the love they had for themselves and others.
CONCLUSION
Lastly, nearly every man with some luck, chance, strength, and motivation has some way to become successful with women. Experience life and live to the fullest as you have already been promised these things with time, and never take a cognitive approach to a new found way of living without first realizing this must first become a part of you.
As I browse and read articles concerning the psychology of the relationships between men and women it astounds me, naturally as a reflection of the significance difference in anatomy, considering the vast amount of miscommunication and misunderstanding the two sexes endure through their every day discourses. Built separately, men and women are mirror opposites of one another. Having the most testosterone men have been given the role to provide, protect, and strive for sex. Receiving estrogen, women on the other hand have been given the need for love, acceptance, and a role as nurturer and bearer of children. In retrospect, ever since mankind’s creation a check and balance system has been placed within each sex, each having the ability to adequately fulfill the needs and desires of the other in absolute equality and measure.
..........MALE....FEMALE
GIVES: LOVE <> SEX
NEEDS: SEX <> LOVE
While man possesses the emotional need for sex, woman controls his wants fulfillment. Woman, from the time of her creation and her eminent nature, has been emotionally charged for the reception of love from man. Since people are imperfect carnal beings, the real act and balance of this love/sex relationship becomes distorted and remains deeply unperceived by both sexes until life experiences begin to bring to light the balance and purpose of a true relationship.
CHARACTERISTICS OF MEN AND WOMEN
MEN = QUANTITATIVE
WOMEN = QUALITATIVE
Men, since they have a quantitative outlook, feel the desire to roam about looking for as much interaction with females as one can muster. Mostly since only a small percentage of the male population tends to display true alpha characteristics women, as they are qualitative, tend to only desire a small percentage of the male population; those that have adapted to a dominant lifestyle.
DOMINANT SUBMISSIVE
TAKES <----- GIVES
DOMINANT MEN
Jerks use the naturally lower self-esteem of a woman to dominate her desire for love; thus gaining control of the relationship leaving a woman emotionally starved. In her desperation she caves into his need for sex, disregarding her own wants to satisfy him.
SUBMISSIVE MEN
Unlike jerks, men typically termed nice tend to more freely give love superceding their own wants and needs to the point to where a woman feels satisfied enough to not feel she has to meet a mans natural desire for sex.
When you really have a good look at how dominant and submissive men behave; it’s not hard to understand why jerks seem to be getting all of the sex. Jerks, in their self-deluded lust naturally take control; meanwhile submissive men disregard their masculine emotions and manhood allowing women to gain control of a relationship.
AGRESSION <> ASSERTION <> SUBMISSION
At first sight becoming a jerk may seem like a great idea; a submissive man sees the success of the jerk and the women who loathe and satisfy his desires, needs, wants. He adopts the jerk as his role model practicing and emulating his actions until second nature to him; he learns the power of a dominant state of mind. Though one thing concerns this once submissive man with his newly found dominance; remembering the run-downs and onset of his unsatisfactory emotional state endured through his pattern of submission, he finds a balance of submission and aggression within his interactions towards others.
In truth, neither the jerk nor submissive man really deserves any respect in regards to their actions and motives. Just as a jerk disregards the respect owed to another a submissive man fails to regard his own right to self respect. Thus, the jerk learns that there is a middle ground to his behavior, leading to a new found assertive man.
ASSERTIVE MEN
Assertive men are the best relationship material for a woman; knowing when to act aggressively and when to appropriately submit to authority. For most they value and understand the true meaning of respect to themselves and towards others, and ably maintain a fairly good level of emotional health. Most importantly they develop the ability to timely and accurately gauge when to satisfy a woman’s craving for love and acceptance and yet communicate their own needs to a woman in a way she can fulfill them.
MEN AND LOVE
The majority of men have the misconception that love subjects one person to another, binding them to someone in submission and self-deterioration, but quite contrarily love when given appropriately can be a very powerful and meaningful thing. One can look at the many strong masculine figures that sacrificed themselves throughout history and find the motivation that drove them was typically the same; that being the love they had for themselves and others.
CONCLUSION
Lastly, nearly every man with some luck, chance, strength, and motivation has some way to become successful with women. Experience life and live to the fullest as you have already been promised these things with time, and never take a cognitive approach to a new found way of living without first realizing this must first become a part of you.