Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That was a close race. Keep watching, it's getting better. They showed this earlier tonight, so I know what's gonna happen.Originally posted by seabreeze
I just watched some of it where one of the Mary Ann's got tossed. HA! HA!
SB
It's Heather Hunter and some other girl I've never heard of.Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I wouldn't watch the show, but I'm curious... who is the 'real movie star'?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Woops. *Shakes head* Guess I'm not paying the show as much attention as I thought.Originally posted by Derek Flint
Rachel Hunter. Heather Hunter is a porn star. LOL
The other Movie star is Nicole Eggert.
Originally posted by Eternal
It's Heather Hunter and some other girl I've never heard of.
Nicole Eggert?? Isn't that the chick from Baywatch and Charles & Charge? She qualifies as "movie star" now? Geez.Originally posted by Derek Flint
Rachel Hunter. Heather Hunter is a porn star. LOL
The other Movie star is Nicole Eggert.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah, they turned it into a reality tv show.Originally posted by Spike_the_Dragon
Uhmm, I guess I don't know what the hell you guys are talking about... didn't that show go off the air back in the 70's ?
Are they doing a remake or something?
Originally posted by Eternal
Yeah, they turned it into a reality tv show.