Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That was a close race. Keep watching, it's getting better. They showed this earlier tonight, so I know what's gonna happen.Originally posted by seabreeze
I just watched some of it where one of the Mary Ann's got tossed. HA! HA!
SB
It's Heather Hunter and some other girl I've never heard of.Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I wouldn't watch the show, but I'm curious... who is the 'real movie star'?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Woops. *Shakes head* Guess I'm not paying the show as much attention as I thought.Originally posted by Derek Flint
Rachel Hunter. Heather Hunter is a porn star. LOL
The other Movie star is Nicole Eggert.
Originally posted by Eternal
It's Heather Hunter and some other girl I've never heard of.
Nicole Eggert?? Isn't that the chick from Baywatch and Charles & Charge? She qualifies as "movie star" now? Geez.Originally posted by Derek Flint
Rachel Hunter. Heather Hunter is a porn star. LOL
The other Movie star is Nicole Eggert.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeah, they turned it into a reality tv show.Originally posted by Spike_the_Dragon
Uhmm, I guess I don't know what the hell you guys are talking about... didn't that show go off the air back in the 70's ?
Are they doing a remake or something?
Originally posted by Eternal
Yeah, they turned it into a reality tv show.