Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The real DJ's please stand up.

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I was just wondering if any DJ's could help me out? I went to prom with one of my friends now I ended up liking her a lot now we've gone on a couple of dates and hung out a lot but always with a group of friends that we hang out with I've been told that she thinks I'm a friend and also that I need to get with her since she fell for me.

The thing I was wondering if we are in the friend zone how in the hell do I get out. I've done a lot of Kino with her which got her really flirty and playful but then she stops all of a sudden.

So my question to all the real DJ's out there is how in the hell do I get out of the friend zone. I can already see a lot of bashing on my part and everyone saying next her or she's a AW (but she doesn't seem like the type) but what I want is to know if you have ideas about getting her not ditching her.

The only thing I could think of was telling her how I feel but that just has the feeling of being a really bad idea. I don't want to look like a little b!?!h you know what I mean.

So thanks in an advance. Hope you can help.
 

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Your right. It's probably not a good idea to tell her how you feel. However she must have interest in you, even if its a tiny bit, that's all you need if you can play your cards right.

You should keep up with the kino, if you do it good enough she won't even know you've been grabbing her. :D

But what you could really use is 'a moment'. One of those things were you both end up inches away from each others faces and it's like your the only people around. That's you go for it. You've got a 50/50 chance of scoring. If she still pushes away, well then you can't do anything more.
 

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Originally posted by piltad

The thing I was wondering if we are in the friend zone how in the hell do I get out.
Are you sure your in the friends-zone? you can find out by making a move on her. For a start ask her out on a date (not a ****ing group date.. it should be just you and her). you can make a move on her once you think is the right time during the date.
 

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we never went on any group dates and we went on two dates then she left for a month to look at coleges. And when she got back i didn't keep the heat on stupidly. And we were friends before and we kinda just slipped back into that before i realized what happened she was saying that i'm one of her best friends and didn't want to screw that up.

Thanks for the advice so far
 
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