"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The real DJ's please stand up.

piltad

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I was just wondering if any DJ's could help me out? I went to prom with one of my friends now I ended up liking her a lot now we've gone on a couple of dates and hung out a lot but always with a group of friends that we hang out with I've been told that she thinks I'm a friend and also that I need to get with her since she fell for me.

The thing I was wondering if we are in the friend zone how in the hell do I get out. I've done a lot of Kino with her which got her really flirty and playful but then she stops all of a sudden.

So my question to all the real DJ's out there is how in the hell do I get out of the friend zone. I can already see a lot of bashing on my part and everyone saying next her or she's a AW (but she doesn't seem like the type) but what I want is to know if you have ideas about getting her not ditching her.

The only thing I could think of was telling her how I feel but that just has the feeling of being a really bad idea. I don't want to look like a little b!?!h you know what I mean.

So thanks in an advance. Hope you can help.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your right. It's probably not a good idea to tell her how you feel. However she must have interest in you, even if its a tiny bit, that's all you need if you can play your cards right.

You should keep up with the kino, if you do it good enough she won't even know you've been grabbing her. :D

But what you could really use is 'a moment'. One of those things were you both end up inches away from each others faces and it's like your the only people around. That's you go for it. You've got a 50/50 chance of scoring. If she still pushes away, well then you can't do anything more.
 

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Originally posted by piltad

The thing I was wondering if we are in the friend zone how in the hell do I get out.
Are you sure your in the friends-zone? you can find out by making a move on her. For a start ask her out on a date (not a ****ing group date.. it should be just you and her). you can make a move on her once you think is the right time during the date.
 

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we never went on any group dates and we went on two dates then she left for a month to look at coleges. And when she got back i didn't keep the heat on stupidly. And we were friends before and we kinda just slipped back into that before i realized what happened she was saying that i'm one of her best friends and didn't want to screw that up.

Thanks for the advice so far
 
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