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Btw, Rollo stated in his first book what a High Value Man is." The man other men want to be and other women want to bang."
Yes, it's like saying that wealthy men are those men that have a lot of money. :rolleyes:
 

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Two goofy guys laughing and making loud noises destroyed Rollo? Lol
I only watched a few clips. However, that was my first impression. Was never a fan of Rollo but still, what I saw was a bunch of laughing hyenas circling a Lion. And that blue haired dude, he really needs to stay in his lane. Who tf was that tool?
 

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Controversy drives clicks, so these online personas engage in petty little wars like these to drive revenue and exposure.

Frankly they’re behaving like chicks. And these two upstarts are attacking Tomassi because they have nothing to lose by doing so. All it will do is driver viewership which means money in their pockets. If on the off-chance they can prove their point they have taken down a big name in the community which adds notoriety to them.

Also consider this is the younger crowd asserting themselves against an older author. Standard young male behavior.
 

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He knew the sculptor was a woman, lol. He was trolling Ivan
Is this for sure? When I first saw that pic, it didn't seem like something Rollo would say.
 

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Rollo got cooked here, all he had to do was answer the question and instead, he choose to give a circular answer than he said some goofy

"Elon musk is not a high-value man"

But rollo tomassi is? when both die, History will remember Musk, regarding Rollo I doubt it
 
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Rollo got cooked her, all he had to do was answer the question and instead he choose to give a circular answer than he said some goofy

"Elon musk is not a high-value man"

But rollo tomassi is? when both die, History will remember Musk, regarding Rollo I doubt it
yeah even if you disagree with Elon’s character, there’s no doubt that he’s a high value man.
 

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Men are obsessed with HVM and "Alpha": Many men do not understand what any of those terms mean, mainly because what I consider HVM and what you consider HVM will always differ because we all perceive the world and reality differently.
That is a whole bunch of truth right there. I noticed in the comment section on YouTube, someone said Rollo didn't consider Ben Shapiro, Elon Musk, or Bill Gates to be alpha males. But they are certainly among the top in their respective fields. I would have respect for them, for various reasons. Why would I, or anyone else, care what a woman would think of them as sex objects? Why would a HVM define his self worth by what women think of them?
 

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If you were taking advice from a guy that looks like him in order to improve with women, you were a fool. That’s like asking a fat woman for dieting advice. There’s plenty of random chads on YouTube giving great advice and they aren’t trying to sell you books.
You should probably take dating advice from someone within 1 point of your looks.
 

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I was always lukewarm on Rollo because he over complicated and pontificated on things and wrote from a hypothetical perspective as he's been married for a long time. Still, some of his content has utility.

But, you don't need to read a 300-page book to understand women.

Say this 1000 times; I will not be a p*ussy around women.

There. Problem solved.

Now give me your money :cool:

Ciao,
Dash
 

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Isn’t Rollo married?
Yes, he is. That's a common criticism of him.

Rollo's problem (IMO) is that he needs 45 minutes to express a thought that can be expressed in 15 seconds.There is a difference between being philosophical and overly verbose. He is the latter.
Yes, this is true. Compare "The Rational Male" at 284 pages to Richard Cooper's "Unplugged Alpha" at 200 pages. The 2 books have a lot of overlap, and Cooper makes the points faster.

Here is Rollo Tomassi discussing the purpose of his tweet (note "&t=6260s" in URL).
"Everyone is going to take this and insert their own definition of what a high value man is ..."


And the original tweet :

1. Do not get married
2. Avoid family creation
3. Vasectomy in your 20s
4. Lift consistently
5. Eliminate all sedations
6. Learn Game & Networking
7. Play to your strengths, build wealth
8. Resist easing up on your focus

This is a mostly fluff list.

MGTOWs and incels do items 1 and 2. MGTOWs and incels do not eliminate all sedations, as most as big time users of porn.

Vasectomy in your 20s is a not a good idea, even if you don't desire children. Men who have vasectomies have a difficult time dating women in their 30s, who will often drop a man if they find out he has a vasectomy. Men who have vasectomies have a narrower dating pool if they desire LTRs as a lot of women will drop a man for having a vasectomy on the basis that she wants a child someday. Also, vasectomies are permanent and condoms do allow for a man to have children eventually if he wants them.

Lifting consistently is a fundamental activity.

Eliminate all sedations is mostly good. I practice "no porn and no fap" but I do drink alcohol. It's difficult to do the early stages of dating (learn game) without bars and alcohol.

Learning game (attraction/seduction) and networking is easier said than done, especially attraction/seduction.

7 & 8 are complete fluff.
 
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Rollo compiled a lot of SS experience 15 years ago, it was great advice at the time, along with Chateau. They were good reads before 2010. Yes, dating has changed since then, evolving. RT hasn’t adapted to the sexual market after Rational Male
 

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1. Do not get married
2. Avoid family creation
3. Vasectomy in your 20s
4. Lift consistently
5. Eliminate all sedations
6. Learn Game & Networking
7. Play to your strengths, build wealth
8. Resist easing up on your focus

https://www.newsunzip.com/wiki/rollo-tomassi/

Rollo has kept most of the details about his personal life. According to the sources, he celebrates his birthday on the 2nd of April every year. Additionally, he was born in 1969 in Los Angeles, California, United States. Reportedly, he is residing in Reno, Nevada, the United States with his family. Rollo Tomassi’s age is 53 years old (as of 2022). His real name is George W. Miller.

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He is married and has a family, and he tells men in their 20s who have trouble with women; DO NOT get married, get a girl pregnant or have a family,

Guess what he tells people is good for his bank account, but it’s not good for his real life.
 

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1. Do not get married
2. Avoid family creation
3. Vasectomy in your 20s
4. Lift consistently
5. Eliminate all sedations
6. Learn Game & Networking
7. Play to your strengths, build wealth
8. Resist easing up on your focus

https://www.newsunzip.com/wiki/rollo-tomassi/

Rollo has kept most of the details about his personal life. According to the sources, he celebrates his birthday on the 2nd of April every year. Additionally, he was born in 1969 in Los Angeles, California, United States. Reportedly, he is residing in Reno, Nevada, the United States with his family. Rollo Tomassi’s age is 53 years old (as of 2022). His real name is George W. Miller.

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He is married and has a family, and he tells men in their 20s who have trouble with women; DO NOT get married, get a girl pregnant or have a family,

Guess what he tells people is good for his bank account, but it’s not good for his real life.
Where did Rollo claim he took "The quickest path to becoming a high-value man"? That is the title of the tweet, which I notice you decided not to include in your post.

 

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Destiny and Sneako are literal cucks...
Rollo has written several books and has hours of useful content in various videos. I disagree with him on vasectomy. I analyze everything he says.

Thinking though that some blue haired cuck who keeps interrupting and throwing around insults is wrecking another man is High School drama bs. Nothing more

It is clear that the concepts Rollo were touching on are things only higher IQs are capable of comprehending.

Btw, Rollo stated in his first book what a High Value Man is." The man other men want to be and other women want to bang." It's a placeholder term that people bend to fit their ideology. He chose not to play into that.

Idiots will go;hur dir he doesn't know what high value is hur dur

I'm not even a Rollo fan and this took 10 minutes of research to sort out.

It appears I'm not the only one to recognize the difference in IQ. https://t.co/R7F5bCuCBb 58:00
The neurotic attention w#ore with blue hair is Destiny? In this video, he repeatedly misquotes the tweet ("how to become") that is titled "The quickest path to becoming a high-value man". I suppose people like the simplicity of a Blue Pill man dying his hair blue, but to me the number of Destiny videos suggests a smurf fetish in our midst.

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Back to Rollo - he not only debated in PUA forums (including SoSuave years ago), he also incorporated research from Dr David Buss into his books. It is a rare combination - he both knows the research, and knows common misconceptions and critques. That's why I found his books valuable - as a cognent summary of knowledge from Dr Buss and PUA forums.

"The Player's Handbook" (by Rollo Tomassi) has a chapter on Alpha Widows. I've had a couple extremely awkward encounters which confused me until that chapter. I wasn't trying to create Alpha Widows, but I flirted with too many women, and it appears some of them plugged me into their "ideal man" fantasies. Tomassi's book nailed it, explaining my prior experiences. I made a list which helped me be on my guard later. Rollo doesn't need me to vouch for his book, but I'll do it anyways - it helped me put some important life experiences in perspective. That's valuable regardless of what he tweeted on May 1st, as the book stands on its own merits.
 

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I really want to know all the members complaining about the vasectomy if they do have children and how's the status of their marriage.
 

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He is or has no clue the things Elon is currently working to revolutionize and disrupt the auto industry among other industries
Rollo Tomassi will be forgotten like the Muscular Christian movement in the 1880s
I thought you meant Elon would be forgotten
 
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