"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Quiet Girls and the 'Noisy' Ones

Nightspark

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Ok i've recently thought about this since i'm trying to expand myself in the whole scene...

from what i have read and experianced at first hand there are two types of girls so far that i have ran into:

The quite girls and the 'noisy' ones.

Ok by quiet i mean they are somewhat detached from their sexuality... they know how to hide it really well or in other cases they are simply just detached. These girls have lower self esteem than the 'noisy' ones as they do not think of themselves as the prettiest cutest or whatever person in the room world etc. Very similar AFC traits.

YOu then have the 'noisy' girls who are well pretty much after the same thing we are... a good time, and they are not hiding it. They are the ones that know they are cute, hot, pretty, whatever. They have a higher self-esteem and because of that, AFCs tend to be easy prey to these type.


THis is how it has worked for me so far... FOr a noiser type of girl i have always removed what they always have... ....attention. Removing this little intricate part of their persona from them basically rips them to a level below you so to speak... it tells them that, you are busy and whateva... which is what the whole Don Juan principle is based on; Being the Prince (Source: Pook) and not caring about what girls do etc etc.

Ok now here's my question... quiet girls i still am not sure how to deal with these types, or i think i dont know how to. I was thinking of the exact same removing of the attention you give them , the same way that you'd act towards a 'noisy' girl.... but i'm sort of spiralling the idea of giving them a bit more attention than usual since they do not receive it or they claim not to...


anyways in short, my question is... how would you act towards a more quiet type of girl as opposed to the 'noisy' ones?


Thanks in advance... =)

-Nightspark
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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firstly do not neg-hit them, but still be funny. Now as for what to do, do not give them too much attention just like you would normally do ie do not phone her every 5 minutes and do not chase but also do not ignore them, it is vital not to. You also have to make them feel comfterble by taking control, do not be 'controling' over here but just maintian control over the situation.
 

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Now this is a useful thread!

Nightspark you are so correct in pointing out these 2 types of girls...!!Taking the attention away from these noisy girls is a great idea! I am going to put you tip into use tomorrow (got a grp meeting thing)

yea fvck the noisy girls they think they are the sh!t.. i'm goin for the quieter ones.. they are usually nicer too :)
 

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Originally posted by Nightspark


YOu then have the 'noisy' girls who are well pretty much after the same thing we are... a good time, and they are not hiding it. They are the ones that know they are cute, hot, pretty, whatever. They have a higher self-esteem and because of that, AFCs tend to be easy prey to these type.


THis is how it has worked for me so far... FOr a noiser type of girl i have always removed what they always have... ....attention. Removing this little intricate part of their persona from them basically rips them to a level below you so to speak... it tells them that, you are busy and whateva... which is what the whole Don Juan principle is based on; Being the Prince (Source: Pook) and not caring about what girls do etc etc.

So how did you let them know you liked them without giving them too much attention?
 
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