"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Quiet Girls and the 'Noisy' Ones

Nightspark

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Ok i've recently thought about this since i'm trying to expand myself in the whole scene...

from what i have read and experianced at first hand there are two types of girls so far that i have ran into:

The quite girls and the 'noisy' ones.

Ok by quiet i mean they are somewhat detached from their sexuality... they know how to hide it really well or in other cases they are simply just detached. These girls have lower self esteem than the 'noisy' ones as they do not think of themselves as the prettiest cutest or whatever person in the room world etc. Very similar AFC traits.

YOu then have the 'noisy' girls who are well pretty much after the same thing we are... a good time, and they are not hiding it. They are the ones that know they are cute, hot, pretty, whatever. They have a higher self-esteem and because of that, AFCs tend to be easy prey to these type.


THis is how it has worked for me so far... FOr a noiser type of girl i have always removed what they always have... ....attention. Removing this little intricate part of their persona from them basically rips them to a level below you so to speak... it tells them that, you are busy and whateva... which is what the whole Don Juan principle is based on; Being the Prince (Source: Pook) and not caring about what girls do etc etc.

Ok now here's my question... quiet girls i still am not sure how to deal with these types, or i think i dont know how to. I was thinking of the exact same removing of the attention you give them , the same way that you'd act towards a 'noisy' girl.... but i'm sort of spiralling the idea of giving them a bit more attention than usual since they do not receive it or they claim not to...


anyways in short, my question is... how would you act towards a more quiet type of girl as opposed to the 'noisy' ones?


Thanks in advance... =)

-Nightspark
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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firstly do not neg-hit them, but still be funny. Now as for what to do, do not give them too much attention just like you would normally do ie do not phone her every 5 minutes and do not chase but also do not ignore them, it is vital not to. You also have to make them feel comfterble by taking control, do not be 'controling' over here but just maintian control over the situation.
 

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Now this is a useful thread!

Nightspark you are so correct in pointing out these 2 types of girls...!!Taking the attention away from these noisy girls is a great idea! I am going to put you tip into use tomorrow (got a grp meeting thing)

yea fvck the noisy girls they think they are the sh!t.. i'm goin for the quieter ones.. they are usually nicer too :)
 

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Originally posted by Nightspark


YOu then have the 'noisy' girls who are well pretty much after the same thing we are... a good time, and they are not hiding it. They are the ones that know they are cute, hot, pretty, whatever. They have a higher self-esteem and because of that, AFCs tend to be easy prey to these type.


THis is how it has worked for me so far... FOr a noiser type of girl i have always removed what they always have... ....attention. Removing this little intricate part of their persona from them basically rips them to a level below you so to speak... it tells them that, you are busy and whateva... which is what the whole Don Juan principle is based on; Being the Prince (Source: Pook) and not caring about what girls do etc etc.

So how did you let them know you liked them without giving them too much attention?
 
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