"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The protective cousin....

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To anyone who read my other posts: I finally think i've gotten rid of the ex, with homecomming a show was that night so i just said screw homcomming and my date and I are just going to a concert that night.

My new problem: A diff chick who i've really been connecting with recently is completely into me, initiates kino, flirts like all hell, calls me while she's in the shower, etc. Thing is she's got a hella buff cousin who I guess is really protective of her, who goes to my school. The guy thinks i'm cool from repuation, never really met him. Problem is that that might change if i start doing anything with this girl...how would you handle the guy to make him leave it alone?

Gracias.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by DJoneday
calls me while she's in the shower,
Did that remind anyone else of "The pickup artist"?
 

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How the hell does she call you in the shower? Clarify man. As for your problem, who gives a sh1t if he's buff. If you were married, and some "buff" guy came up and said he wanted her, would you just be a pvssy and run away? FVCK NO! You'd work out and improve yourself and make his ass know to stay the fvck away...etc...etc.

Yeah man, don't back down. In this case, just get along with him and start macking the girl. You'll eventually get his trust...plus unless he's one of those incest sickos, he'll want her to be happy and ****. That's all.
 

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i mean she had water hitting the lower half of her body while she was talking to me on the phone.

And you misunderstand, he doesn't want her, he just sees her as a little sister, and is protective like someone would be of a younger sibling.
 

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That **** happens daily to me, so I just stopped talking to male friends of the girls I mess with unless they are real close to me.

When you talk to male friends of chicks about different broads they start hating on yo ass just to get the girl. Sometimes her female friends will hate on you just cus you dont like them.

But I dont think ol boy will mind forreal if he gets ass too and aint no *****. Like if somebody wanted my cousin Ill hook him up, but Ill **** him up if he treats her wrong.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by DJoneday
who I guess is really protective of her, who goes to my school.
Gracias.
You sure he is protective and you havn't just decided? wheres the proof?
 

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He beat the hell out of her ex before they went out for doing stuff with her. That and from her/others.
 

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The real question is how bad do you want to bone this chick ;)
 

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Maybe her cousin has dibs on her first???

--iMat
 

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Got more options, so it isn't like this is a oneitis... just seems to me like if there's a simple way of getting past the cousin...why not ;) more advice anyone?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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