"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The pro's and con's of "funky" hair

sharpshooter

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Yeah that's right. I've got a 70's/80's/90's type of wavy dry puffed hairstyle going. I don't use gel anymore. It's almost like a wavy/puffy 3 inch mullet all around. It gets attention, a lot of attention..but sometimes it's not good attention.

Pros:
It's different
It can make me look like a model when i'm dressed accordingly
Some girls LOVE it

Cons:
It's different
It can make me look ungroomed if I don't shave.
Some girls HATE it

It takes balls to have that type of hair in today's "clean cut" age. But I don't give a ****.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sharpshooter

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
it's just hair man, don't think so much about it.
Hair is important. If it wasn't, you wouldn't be getting a haircut every week..mr clean cut.
 

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lol... hair is deffinatelly something that IS important in my eye's... i mean... a persons hair often changes a person from being really good looking, to being unattractive! I have a friend that if he doesnt gel his hair, he will look like a caveman, but as soon as he fixes up his hair, he looks like a model, no jokes!

sharpshooterL do you by any chance have a pic of your hair for us?:rolleyes:


Laterz...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MindOverMatter

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Hair is important. If it wasn't, you wouldn't be getting a haircut every week..mr clean cut.
Haha, I'm not giving you a hard time, relax. I cut my hair every 3 weeks because it's practical. I've had long hair back when I was like 15, and was anything but practical. I used way too much shampoo, it always got in my face, and I was shedding like a dog.

But when it comes to appearance & girls, hair doesnt matter as much as your face/body. So don't think too much about it.

I do give you props for having a mullet tho, that takes balls.
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Haha, I'm not giving you a hard time, relax. I cut my hair every 3 weeks because it's practical. I've had long hair back when I was like 15, and was anything but practical. I used way too much shampoo, it always got in my face, and I was shedding like a dog.

But when it comes to appearance & girls, hair doesnt matter as much as your face/body. So don't think too much about it.

I do give you props for having a mullet tho, that takes balls.
I disagree. I think hair is an important part of your physical appearrance, and that girls DO care about it. Probably MORESO than your body. (unless you're at the beach or another place where you can walk around half-naked and show off your body). But I've had lots of girls comment on my hair (whether they like it or not), and a lot less comment about my body (because most of the time, there's some sort of shirt covering it and they can't tell what it's like, or maybe even don't care as much).

Alexi
 

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yo i was trying to grow my hair out. and in the middle stage of growth it was just out of control... when it was dry it had that dry mullet poof thing going... when i tried to fix it up it just looked like sh1t!

Now im back to shorter hair. Suits me better.
 
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