"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The pro's and con's of "funky" hair

sharpshooter

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Yeah that's right. I've got a 70's/80's/90's type of wavy dry puffed hairstyle going. I don't use gel anymore. It's almost like a wavy/puffy 3 inch mullet all around. It gets attention, a lot of attention..but sometimes it's not good attention.

Pros:
It's different
It can make me look like a model when i'm dressed accordingly
Some girls LOVE it

Cons:
It's different
It can make me look ungroomed if I don't shave.
Some girls HATE it

It takes balls to have that type of hair in today's "clean cut" age. But I don't give a ****.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sharpshooter

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
it's just hair man, don't think so much about it.
Hair is important. If it wasn't, you wouldn't be getting a haircut every week..mr clean cut.
 

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lol... hair is deffinatelly something that IS important in my eye's... i mean... a persons hair often changes a person from being really good looking, to being unattractive! I have a friend that if he doesnt gel his hair, he will look like a caveman, but as soon as he fixes up his hair, he looks like a model, no jokes!

sharpshooterL do you by any chance have a pic of your hair for us?:rolleyes:


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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MindOverMatter

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Hair is important. If it wasn't, you wouldn't be getting a haircut every week..mr clean cut.
Haha, I'm not giving you a hard time, relax. I cut my hair every 3 weeks because it's practical. I've had long hair back when I was like 15, and was anything but practical. I used way too much shampoo, it always got in my face, and I was shedding like a dog.

But when it comes to appearance & girls, hair doesnt matter as much as your face/body. So don't think too much about it.

I do give you props for having a mullet tho, that takes balls.
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Haha, I'm not giving you a hard time, relax. I cut my hair every 3 weeks because it's practical. I've had long hair back when I was like 15, and was anything but practical. I used way too much shampoo, it always got in my face, and I was shedding like a dog.

But when it comes to appearance & girls, hair doesnt matter as much as your face/body. So don't think too much about it.

I do give you props for having a mullet tho, that takes balls.
I disagree. I think hair is an important part of your physical appearrance, and that girls DO care about it. Probably MORESO than your body. (unless you're at the beach or another place where you can walk around half-naked and show off your body). But I've had lots of girls comment on my hair (whether they like it or not), and a lot less comment about my body (because most of the time, there's some sort of shirt covering it and they can't tell what it's like, or maybe even don't care as much).

Alexi
 

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yo i was trying to grow my hair out. and in the middle stage of growth it was just out of control... when it was dry it had that dry mullet poof thing going... when i tried to fix it up it just looked like sh1t!

Now im back to shorter hair. Suits me better.
 
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