Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Thanks the 3rd option seems best. One of my plates (Mexican Catholic Virgin type) is in that category. I wish I was more attracted to her sometimes. Would be nice to have more options. Maybe she'll grow on me.
Is too much work, having to squeeze the last drops of femininities out of them, and they also have no family values. They are worthless, as wives.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I think your generalizing a bit too much. Most driven women I have met actually have great relations with their families. If you apply the DJ skills effectively, breaking down her walls will be effortless. Her feminine energy will gradually come to surface. These women tend to be more independent, thereby applying dating principles here will actually benefit you because you are even less available than she is, the hamster wheel will spin faster and faster...
Yeah, it's like being a DJ, turns them into real women. It takes time, patience, and walking away at the drop of a hat
Yeah, in general, white people are not family oriented. I come from a typical white family (poorly behaved).
Probably the main reason I like latin women right now... Plus, I like the crazy kind of spicy they bring to the table. White women almost just seem boring in comparison, definitely more on the manly side too.
You convinced me that the first girl I ask out is my Mexican chick. And, the other Mexican chick I met, at the 99 cents store, is second on the list.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
As a shy guy, I don't mind a more assertive woman. I almost prefer it somewhat. Obviously, I don't want a bossy ballbuster lol, but there are plenty of confident, assertive women with good jobs that are good people.
They want careers with paychecks and power and most of them don't want to do any actual real work to get it. Other than a few elite groups of women like nurses. And a few other ones. Nurses work hard. And they care. That's why they choose that career. But your average typical office worker or service industry woman doesn't do j@ck sh|t of productive work. Then some white night man feels sorry for her for svcking at life so bad, and more so, he wants a piece of poon.. So he promotes her to be the boss, supervising over men doing all the real work she knows nothing about... If he had any b@lls he would boot her azz, or never would have hired her to start..
Get her in the gym with you
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She has a great body (medium build), its just, that I am more attracted to tiny/petite.
It depends, needy in mild sense is good. Too much, is too much work. There has to be a balance.
So what happens when that one guy, who doesn't put up with sh!t, takes a stand and walks away? I'm in uncharted waters, and would like to know of any positive outcomes. Things look hopeless from here.
