"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Primary Issue

TheMonkeyKing

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The Primary Issue within these walls and other forums is EMOTIONAL response. It is not the behaviour of others, which is COMPLETELY beyond our control. It is the response to those behaviours and the resulting behavioural response which is likely the ONLY issue.

I would argue that the water tables are now saturated with, among other things, birth control product.

Why?... Because so many men are crying at the slightest 'indiscretion' from a woman. Here's a few examples:

-She's too busy = cry; spend next 12hours over-analysing with other crying men on Sosuave (or other Manosphere forum of choice)

-She flakes at a moments notice = cry; spend next 12hours over-analysing with other crying men on Sosuave (or other Manosphere forum of choice)

-She's seen talking to another guy = cry; spend next 12hours over-analysing with other crying men on Sosuave (or other Manosphere forum of choice)

-She doesn't put out = cry; spend next 12hours over-analysing with other crying men on Sosuave (or other Manosphere forum of choice)

-She doesn't text back within 30 seconds = cry; spend next 12hours over-analysing with other crying men on Sosuave (or other Manosphere forum of choice)


...I could go on. But you get the idea.

In any scenario between two or more people, to maintain continuity of the scenario, there is only room for an emotional response by one person. The reason for this is resolution of that emotional response. An emotional response, met with another, is perpetuated.

Women understand this. That is why the flood gates of sympathy open when one female in a group of them gets the feels...

It is also why they are so good at the 'Ice Queen'. It's a test of your emotional resolve. How do you react under pressure... Fight or flight? It's in-built to her evolutionary hard drive.

This is not a means of disrespect to anyone here. It is actually supposed to be a constructive observation.

TMK says; a man should not be having an emotional response towards a woman that has been in your life for less than six months. And even then only very rarely.

TMK also says emotional response is a clouded response and one a man will ideally have the resolve to condition himself out of.


TMK, evolving Silverback.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Between_The_Lines

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Excellent post.

The all-too-important element of stoicism offered by the red pill is not often enough discussed. Shell shocked blue pillers gravitate toward the cynicism found in the red pill because what an invitingly spacious home it provides for their indignation.

In closing, BTL has a profound sense of admiration for referring to oneself in the third person a la Salvador Dali.
 

jurry

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Great post, lets chill with the third person speak though jurry no like.
 
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