"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Primary Issue

TheMonkeyKing

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The Primary Issue within these walls and other forums is EMOTIONAL response. It is not the behaviour of others, which is COMPLETELY beyond our control. It is the response to those behaviours and the resulting behavioural response which is likely the ONLY issue.

I would argue that the water tables are now saturated with, among other things, birth control product.

Why?... Because so many men are crying at the slightest 'indiscretion' from a woman. Here's a few examples:

-She's too busy = cry; spend next 12hours over-analysing with other crying men on Sosuave (or other Manosphere forum of choice)

-She flakes at a moments notice = cry; spend next 12hours over-analysing with other crying men on Sosuave (or other Manosphere forum of choice)

-She's seen talking to another guy = cry; spend next 12hours over-analysing with other crying men on Sosuave (or other Manosphere forum of choice)

-She doesn't put out = cry; spend next 12hours over-analysing with other crying men on Sosuave (or other Manosphere forum of choice)

-She doesn't text back within 30 seconds = cry; spend next 12hours over-analysing with other crying men on Sosuave (or other Manosphere forum of choice)


...I could go on. But you get the idea.

In any scenario between two or more people, to maintain continuity of the scenario, there is only room for an emotional response by one person. The reason for this is resolution of that emotional response. An emotional response, met with another, is perpetuated.

Women understand this. That is why the flood gates of sympathy open when one female in a group of them gets the feels...

It is also why they are so good at the 'Ice Queen'. It's a test of your emotional resolve. How do you react under pressure... Fight or flight? It's in-built to her evolutionary hard drive.

This is not a means of disrespect to anyone here. It is actually supposed to be a constructive observation.

TMK says; a man should not be having an emotional response towards a woman that has been in your life for less than six months. And even then only very rarely.

TMK also says emotional response is a clouded response and one a man will ideally have the resolve to condition himself out of.


TMK, evolving Silverback.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Excellent post.

The all-too-important element of stoicism offered by the red pill is not often enough discussed. Shell shocked blue pillers gravitate toward the cynicism found in the red pill because what an invitingly spacious home it provides for their indignation.

In closing, BTL has a profound sense of admiration for referring to oneself in the third person a la Salvador Dali.
 

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Great post, lets chill with the third person speak though jurry no like.
 
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