The Power Over Sex

[Desdinova]

I think it's really important to NEVER let your GF hold the power of sex over you. You really have to internalize the idea that you can get sex from places other than your GF.

The other night, the GF tried it for the first time. "If you play that CD, you might not get anything tonight."

I responded with "That's fine, I have two hands." That evening I didn't even bother to make an effort to get laid. The older I get and the more women I fvck, the less I care if I get laid, so it's really easy for me.

Something interesting happened last night. I'm helping her get her house ready for sale, so I end up moving her bed and found her sex toys under the mattress. I put them elsewhere and continued doing what I needed to get done. Later I told her "I found your toys while I was moving your bed." She laughs.

Knowing I'm at the top of her HSL makes things a little more interesting. The next thing I asked her was, "So how many times were you thinking about me while you were making love to those?" She was fvcking giggling for about 5 minutes straight. She broke out giggling again about 15 minutes later. I asked her that question with a smile which is really important. If I had asked insecurely, it wouldn't have gone over very well.

I was exhausted last night when we went to bed. I worked all day and all evening and was ready for sleep. She was trying to get me interested in fvcking her earlier without success. This time, she just starts playing with herself. That 5hit isn't happening with me around, so I took over. It all ended with me fvcking her brains out.

It astounds me how I never quit learning about women. They're completely owned by their fantasies.

 

[Rainman4707]

Interesting.

What do you mean when you say "They're completely owned by their fantasies."

 

[Desdinova]

Interesting.

What do you mean when you say "They're completely owned by their fantasies."

Women seem to be able to experience extreme emotions when they're in their world of fantasy. They can experience what they want with anybody they want. If you're able to bridge between their fantasy world and reality, that woman will be stuck like glue.

I believe fantasy is extremely powerful in the world of women. It can dictate whether or not they'll date a certain type of man. If he doesn't fit into what she fantasizes about, he won't qualify as dating or boyfriend material.

 

[Trump]

Bro if a girl is under 27 they have no power, in sex or anything else. Of course you can talk back to them, deny them, frustrate them, do whatever the hell you want to them because they have no where to go after a certain age. It's a piece of cake to have sex once they reach their late 20s. If they are in their 30s forget about it.

Heck in Hollywood if you are 26 you are too old to play the gf of a 38 year old.

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

Des,

I agree 100% that you never want her to think she can hold the power of sex over you. For me, it all has to do with how you view yourself. I view myself as the prize. She's fortunate to have me as her boyfriend and to be able to fvck me.

When I was younger, I made the mistake of inadvertently pedestalizing my girlfriends. I viewed myself as being fortunate to have her as my girlfriend and to have sex with her.

Making the change of truly (not just faking it) viewing myself as the prize has made all the difference in the world.

-Augustus-

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Interesting.

What do you mean when you say "They're completely owned by their fantasies."

For broads to truely get their socks off completely it's way more "mental" than physical. My ex wf said she could get off at her desk just thinking about me. Not even touching herself. Maybe she was just stroking my ego, who knows.

As men we don't care ethier way. It's visual &
physical, the mental come much later depending on the RL. Lights ON, none of this in the dark bs.

Red flag for me if they use sex as a power move, they can do it in a teasing manner but if they don't come throught it's red flag noted. 3x you're out. Younger broads typical don't pull this bs, older broads that's another story.

 

[Trump]

Bro if a girl is over 27 they have no power, in sex or anything else. Of course you can talk back to them, deny them, frustrate them, do whatever the hell you want to them because they have no where to go after a certain age. It's a piece of cake to have sex once they reach their late 20s. If they are in their 30s forget about it.

Heck in Hollywood if you are 26 you are too old to play the gf of a 38 year old.

Made the correction to "over 27".

 

[purple haze]

I wonder what a woman would say if you told her, "If you're not nice to me, I won't give you sex."

I imagine most women would scoff and say, "Fine with me, I'm the one doing you a favor."

 

[CMNILS87]

Women seem to be able to experience extreme emotions when they're in their world of fantasy. They can experience what they want with anybody they want. If you're able to bridge between their fantasy world and reality, that woman will be stuck like glue.

I believe fantasy is extremely powerful in the world of women. It can dictate whether or not they'll date a certain type of man. If he doesn't fit into what she fantasizes about, he won't qualify as dating or boyfriend material.

Case in point. I've famed this girl so hard. All she does is fantasize about me. They work themselves. I literally respond with one word answers and smartass comments. A lot of these girls get so worked up about sex they'll even tell me they had sex wit someone else to illicit a response and I don't budge. They come out later and apologize after they say they're trying to make me jealous over nothing. Bitches.......

 

[BlueAlpha1]

I remember one time I was visited my ex from out of town for 4 nights. We had sex the first night but didn't the next couple nights. I didn't try anything on the last night either, and I had to get up at 9:30 for my flight. At 7:45 I was woken up by her molesting me.

After you've banged them at least once, the ability to be in their presence and not push for it, aka have that take it or leave it attitude that OP is advocating is enough to send them into a craze.