"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Power of Friendzones

the305

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zekko: yeah, the guys are that are really awkward should start out with making friends with girls, completely forget about the "dating" for a little while, once you have friends of the opposite sex, that are down to just hangout, you know your good enough to get women more to do more then then just hangout with you.

just a tidbit of information: theres no such thing as a "natural" those guys have had years and years a social conditioning with hanging out with friends, and being around people and interacting, granted some pick up the social intelligence quicker then others but.. the guys who are awkward, 90% of the time, haven't had that social conditioning.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the305 said:
zekko: yeah, the guys are that are really awkward should start out with making friends with girls, completely forget about the "dating" for a little while, once you have friends of the opposite sex, that are down to just hangout, you know your good enough to get women more to do more then then just hangout with you.

just a tidbit of information: theres no such thing as a "natural" those guys have had years and years a social conditioning with hanging out with friends, and being around people and interacting, granted some pick up the social intelligence quicker then others but.. the guys who are awkward, 90% of the time, haven't had that social conditioning.

Do you wanna show us some of the girls you bring that get the best results for you? :up:
 

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some are really hot some are so-so, but what i find is important is, i always have fun with them, like they are just awesome people in general. even if you start out with so-so girls, you will have better chances of approaching meeting other girls, more then if you were alone or with your wing.

i don't wanna post pics really, lol!

just wanted to stress that having girl friends is a good thing, it doesn't have to be either your banging them or nexting them.
 
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