"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Power of Friendzones

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zekko: yeah, the guys are that are really awkward should start out with making friends with girls, completely forget about the "dating" for a little while, once you have friends of the opposite sex, that are down to just hangout, you know your good enough to get women more to do more then then just hangout with you.

just a tidbit of information: theres no such thing as a "natural" those guys have had years and years a social conditioning with hanging out with friends, and being around people and interacting, granted some pick up the social intelligence quicker then others but.. the guys who are awkward, 90% of the time, haven't had that social conditioning.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the305 said:
zekko: yeah, the guys are that are really awkward should start out with making friends with girls, completely forget about the "dating" for a little while, once you have friends of the opposite sex, that are down to just hangout, you know your good enough to get women more to do more then then just hangout with you.

just a tidbit of information: theres no such thing as a "natural" those guys have had years and years a social conditioning with hanging out with friends, and being around people and interacting, granted some pick up the social intelligence quicker then others but.. the guys who are awkward, 90% of the time, haven't had that social conditioning.
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Do you wanna show us some of the girls you bring that get the best results for you? :up:
 
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some are really hot some are so-so, but what i find is important is, i always have fun with them, like they are just awesome people in general. even if you start out with so-so girls, you will have better chances of approaching meeting other girls, more then if you were alone or with your wing.

i don't wanna post pics really, lol!

just wanted to stress that having girl friends is a good thing, it doesn't have to be either your banging them or nexting them.
 
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