"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The power of experience

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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This is directed to most of the new guys here, or for whomever reads this stuff daily and wonders why it doesn't help at all.

Reading articles is a great start, but you can read everything on the whole site and still not be anywhere near to being a DJ. You gotta go out and apply it. Don't let uncertainty hinder you, because if you screw up then you learn from it. Yup, that's right! I'm encouraging you to make mistakes. Everyone does, and being safe from rejection and failure isn't going to help you at all. As some famous important guy said, "Some of the worst failures I've seen are those who never failed."

Another thing, if you want guidance, read the bible, it has articles covering most stuff. But one thing I've found out recently is that it's sometimes best to just try your way and if it doesn't work, then you learned something. Sometimes I've been tempted to post a question here but I decided to figure it out myself...successful or not, those situations usually end in some trouble and fun.

A few weeks ago, I was at a science fair, and I managed to get the number of a hot cheerleader who went to another school. What the hell she was doing at a science fair still perplexes me. Anyways, I called, asked her out, got the whole "I'm not sure if I can, I'll call you back" deal and she never called back. A few days ago I was talking to a friend and his comments were "Man you got REJECTED!" And I just laughed. His next comment was what I found to be important. He claimed that he wouldn't get rejected because he would only try if he was sure he would get accepted. This guy's tan, he's strong as hell, and he has a kickass accent, but because of his safe-side attitude, he doesn't get any chicks at all.

Hence, the time has come, gentlemen. It's time to take some risks. Get rejected. Laugh when some bítch doesn't want your meat, it's her damned loss. Don't think about it and hesitate, just do it. No wussing out, because the more you do that the more opportunities your candy ass wastes. Step out of your comfort zone and do stuff that takes balls. Women don't want a pússy, they already have one.

Peace love and testosterone
-Maki
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Raven125

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If a girl ever says "i'm not sure if i can" i just simply reply with "Well find out if you can right now, either your schedule is open or it isnt. I'm not going to play any of your games, once you make the obligation to come to the movie with me and have a great time, you better stick with it." or something of the like. Usually they will respond with a "Let me check if i'm free"... but if you get something else at least you went down with a bang.
 

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Hmm, lesson learned. Oh well, there's plenty of fish in the sea.
 

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Yeah man, everythin is an experience. If you go out with a girl for four years and come home to find her in a threesome with your brother and your dad, figure out where you went wrong for next time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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