"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The power of ending a phone conversation.

girlsarecrazy

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I iniatiated the close to my phone conversation with the girl who i've been dating/fvcking and man do I feel a lot better and more in control. It gained so much control that it had worried her. Right after our phone conversation she had texted me, "Is something wrong, you seemed off on the phone."

For those guys out there that listen to everything your girl has to say...
For those guys out there that never choses when enough is enough....
For those guys out there who let your girl call the shots...

TAKE CONTROL! Tell her you have something to do and say cya later!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Docs

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Haha, maybe you should try keeping the phone off or not answering it every time. An answering machine is useful for a purpose, let it fulfill its destiny!
 

Charm

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Hahahha. Great one! that sounds like an escape more than anything..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GloriouslyInsane

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The point is not only to end the call but WHEN,You end a call when her IL is high and she's laughing etc (with an excuse of course not just hang up).
 
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