"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The power of ending a phone conversation.

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I iniatiated the close to my phone conversation with the girl who i've been dating/fvcking and man do I feel a lot better and more in control. It gained so much control that it had worried her. Right after our phone conversation she had texted me, "Is something wrong, you seemed off on the phone."

For those guys out there that listen to everything your girl has to say...
For those guys out there that never choses when enough is enough....
For those guys out there who let your girl call the shots...

TAKE CONTROL! Tell her you have something to do and say cya later!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Haha, maybe you should try keeping the phone off or not answering it every time. An answering machine is useful for a purpose, let it fulfill its destiny!
 
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Hahahha. Great one! that sounds like an escape more than anything..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The point is not only to end the call but WHEN,You end a call when her IL is high and she's laughing etc (with an excuse of course not just hang up).
 
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