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Master Don Juan
Study: 60% of the American diet is "ultra-processed" food.
http://time.com/4252515/calories-processed-food/
http://time.com/4252515/calories-processed-food/
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I put those in a shake every morning. Kale, cucumber, celery, grapes, apples, bananas and water. I don't do spinach because I eat enough of that as it is, I like the taste.only thing I would add to the thread is the importance of vegetables kale spinach cucumber and celery should be part of any diet as they help reduce acidity in the body
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
been letting a 21 y/o girl live with me. I like waking up to a nice pair or t!ts in my face.
That is more money than I spend on groceries by a good bit. I see people in the store using their EBT to buy mostly junk food and ringing up 100 dollar orders with it and I never go above $50 with my orders (which are mostly containing very low fat foods and lots of veggies). It just bamboozles me. Oatmeal is cheap, carrots are cheap, skim milk is cheap, bananas are very cheap... Lack of finances is no excuse for having an unhealthy diet. It is just a cop out.I just bought what felt like more groceries than I have ever purchased at once. The cart was full and hard to push. It was barely $100. The card had 1.5 months on it when it came, so there's still $400 on it. This is absurd. The two of us can't each this much food if we tried.
The food welfare system is a marriage of the corporate food producers and the government. The former gets free taxpayer money and the latter gets power over the people connected to the system. I was rooting for the state of Illinois to go out of business; we're right on the brink of doing so right now. But then I wouldn't get mah welfares. This is what keeps the masses from storming the Bastille.
The cost of healthcare is killing this country right now. No one seems to know why. I think the food welfare system is largely to blame. The corporations peddle the highest profit margin food they can, which ends up being the least healthy. People are too stupid, lazy, and spoiled to just buy healthy cheap food and cook it, like in all of history until now. Instead they buy convenience carbs, everyone gets obese, and then later it's a big surprise when we have health problems?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.