"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Posture Exercise

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Step 1 - Stand against a wall.

Step 2 - Make sure that your heels, butt, shoulders, elbows, and the back of your head are all touching the wall.

Step 3 - Take 3 steps forward while holding this posture.

Step 4 - Hold this posture for 3 seconds.

Step 5 - Walk back to the wall.

Do this exercise at least 15 times a day.


This is the Exercise to improve your posture making you look Dominant, Confident, and Alpha.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Where in the hell did you come up with this crazy idea?
 

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It's actually an excercise used by therapists to improve posture in people with a hunch and many other posture problems. Allthough, as always, it has it's variations. Make sure to try and keep the good posture and not just do the "excercise".
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by taiwanesedude227
Should you do it 15 times in a row or throughout the day?
Doesn't matter. As long as you do at least 15 each day.

Honestly, if you are starting then why not finishing all in one go? It's only 15.
 

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Good tip!

Another one posted some time ago was imagine that you have an imaginary rope tied around your waste and it is pulling at your center while you're walking - forcing you to assume a more confident posture.

Gots to love these Jedi mind tricks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by TheDarkSaint
There is a reason girls love military guys. The posture of "attention" is one of power. Remeber that, gentleman
I think "at ease" is more in order when it comes to being a DJ;)
 

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I've got a better posture exercise. It's called lifting weights. Squats, deadlifts, cleans, bench presses will all strengthen muscles that will naturally put your body in a better postion. Therefore your posture is automatically better and you don't have to work on posing like Zoolander. But, cool tip none the less.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wrong.


I see tons of guys who lift, have have muscles rippling out of their bodies.

However, they still don't look dominant. They look incongruent because those muscles are huge but they still have bad posture.

Because they have bad posture (even though they already lift), they look unconfidant.


Therefore, lifting weights does not guarentee you better posture.
 

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B-Lemond said:
Step 1 - Stand against a wall.

Step 2 - Make sure that your heels, butt, shoulders, elbows, and the back of your head are all touching the wall.

Step 3 - Take 3 steps forward while holding this posture.

Step 4 - Hold this posture for 3 seconds.

Step 5 - Walk back to the wall.

Do this exercise at least 15 times a day.


This is the Exercise to improve your posture making you look Dominant, Confident, and Alpha.
This may be a litttle difficult to do. But with the following tip, I am sure that you will be able to pull it off.

TIP: Slightly flex your butt cheeks and cave your abs in.
 
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This is sad because Wing Chun is kind of a joke as a fighting art, but its great for posture & health. Anyway, the stance for WC is very similar to some other descriptions, here.

-Stand with feet shoulder width apart.
-Flex your abs.
-Pretend you're sitting on a stool (flex your butt, may involve bending the knees slightly)

Now walk around like that. Your legs & core are like loaded guns, along with a great center of gravity.
 
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Start working on your back and shoulders, stop sitting at the comp as much, and before you know it, all eyez on you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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