"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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Well, I've read the 'Woman mentioning other guys' thread' but I just ran into something that I'm not sure how to take it. First off, I would like to say that I'm not reading into it at this moment as I just saw her where she works, and I was in a hurry.

It was in a coffee shop, and she was bringing my drink to me, and she said, "Why do guys always do that?" She had been talking to one of her coworkers; anyways, so I say, "Well if that isn't a stereotype." And then she says, "Well, guys always tell us that girls give them mixed signals and I told Fred (don't remember what name she said and don't care) exactly how I feel and he took it a completely different way. And it seems like that's happening a lot right now."

Unfortunately that was the end of that because I had to go and get some stuff for my lunch break at work today. Any interpretations or advice are welcome. Oh yeah, this babe is a hb6.5.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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she's thinking out loud and is messed in the head when it comes to understanding men.

stay away, this chic is nothing but trouble.

she's not confiding in you if that is what you are thinking. She's just caught up in her own little world and will yack away to anyone who will listen (and seems receptive to listening to her drivle).

J
 

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Originally posted by The Nice Guy is Gone
Well, I've read the 'Woman mentioning other guys' thread' but I just ran into something that I'm not sure how to take it. First off, I would like to say that I'm not reading into it at this moment as I just saw her where she works, and I was in a hurry.

It was in a coffee shop, and she was bringing my drink to me, and she said, "Why do guys always do that?" She had been talking to one of her coworkers; anyways, so I say, "Well if that isn't a stereotype." And then she says, "Well, guys always tell us that girls give them mixed signals and I told Fred (don't remember what name she said and don't care) exactly how I feel and he took it a completely different way. And it seems like that's happening a lot right now."

Unfortunately that was the end of that because I had to go and get some stuff for my lunch break at work today. Any interpretations or advice are welcome. Oh yeah, this babe is a hb6.5.
She was just grumbling that another guy doesn't understand her. She's just communicating like a woman and he's just hearing her like a man. Happens every day and is why most of you are here.

I'm SO glad I speak/understand the languages of both sexes.
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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Thanks joekerre and wyldfire.

Wyldfire, I've seen several of your posts, and for the most part, they are very informative, and it's nice to know that you're here trying to help.

That referenced thread in my initial post was yours--and now I'm having a little difficulty finding it.

Thanks again, I'll stay away from this one.
 
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