"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Possibilities?

The Nice Guy is Gone

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Well, I've read the 'Woman mentioning other guys' thread' but I just ran into something that I'm not sure how to take it. First off, I would like to say that I'm not reading into it at this moment as I just saw her where she works, and I was in a hurry.

It was in a coffee shop, and she was bringing my drink to me, and she said, "Why do guys always do that?" She had been talking to one of her coworkers; anyways, so I say, "Well if that isn't a stereotype." And then she says, "Well, guys always tell us that girls give them mixed signals and I told Fred (don't remember what name she said and don't care) exactly how I feel and he took it a completely different way. And it seems like that's happening a lot right now."

Unfortunately that was the end of that because I had to go and get some stuff for my lunch break at work today. Any interpretations or advice are welcome. Oh yeah, this babe is a hb6.5.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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joekerr31

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she's thinking out loud and is messed in the head when it comes to understanding men.

stay away, this chic is nothing but trouble.

she's not confiding in you if that is what you are thinking. She's just caught up in her own little world and will yack away to anyone who will listen (and seems receptive to listening to her drivle).

J
 

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Originally posted by The Nice Guy is Gone
Well, I've read the 'Woman mentioning other guys' thread' but I just ran into something that I'm not sure how to take it. First off, I would like to say that I'm not reading into it at this moment as I just saw her where she works, and I was in a hurry.

It was in a coffee shop, and she was bringing my drink to me, and she said, "Why do guys always do that?" She had been talking to one of her coworkers; anyways, so I say, "Well if that isn't a stereotype." And then she says, "Well, guys always tell us that girls give them mixed signals and I told Fred (don't remember what name she said and don't care) exactly how I feel and he took it a completely different way. And it seems like that's happening a lot right now."

Unfortunately that was the end of that because I had to go and get some stuff for my lunch break at work today. Any interpretations or advice are welcome. Oh yeah, this babe is a hb6.5.
She was just grumbling that another guy doesn't understand her. She's just communicating like a woman and he's just hearing her like a man. Happens every day and is why most of you are here.

I'm SO glad I speak/understand the languages of both sexes.
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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Thanks joekerre and wyldfire.

Wyldfire, I've seen several of your posts, and for the most part, they are very informative, and it's nice to know that you're here trying to help.

That referenced thread in my initial post was yours--and now I'm having a little difficulty finding it.

Thanks again, I'll stay away from this one.
 
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