"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Popular man's mindset

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The popular man who we'll call the man is the person you see women chasing after, men idolizing, and one who is a DJ.

Whats makes the man, the man?
-The man does not need women to make him happy, and he knows it.
-The man does not seek approval of others, but for the improvement of himself.
-The man does not treat other DJs as gods, he treats them as he treats everyone else.
-The man does not care what others think or say about him cause he knows he's a man of value.
-The man demands respect, and rightfully earns it.
-The man is neither nice or the Jerk he is the DJ.
-The man presents him self as the man by showing the confidence he has within, on the outside
-The man does not talk $hit about others cause he's got better things to do.
-The man has goals (sports, job, etc) and he knows women are distractions.
-The man is a good person not the nice guy, but the good guy
-The man is fun to be around, because he's active, but not annoying
-The man does not close himself to others. He's open and positive
-The man dresses like the man
-The man is not influenced by others he influences them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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