"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Popular man's mindset

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The popular man who we'll call the man is the person you see women chasing after, men idolizing, and one who is a DJ.

Whats makes the man, the man?
-The man does not need women to make him happy, and he knows it.
-The man does not seek approval of others, but for the improvement of himself.
-The man does not treat other DJs as gods, he treats them as he treats everyone else.
-The man does not care what others think or say about him cause he knows he's a man of value.
-The man demands respect, and rightfully earns it.
-The man is neither nice or the Jerk he is the DJ.
-The man presents him self as the man by showing the confidence he has within, on the outside
-The man does not talk $hit about others cause he's got better things to do.
-The man has goals (sports, job, etc) and he knows women are distractions.
-The man is a good person not the nice guy, but the good guy
-The man is fun to be around, because he's active, but not annoying
-The man does not close himself to others. He's open and positive
-The man dresses like the man
-The man is not influenced by others he influences them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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