"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the piercing thing!!! UNBELIEAVABLE

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bernardouzeda

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Well here it goes - i'm into this girl and she's into me, we never dated but we know each other for some weeks and we only have the chance to speak online,,, we almost have virtual sex every day.... whatever - she just asked if i want to go to the movies with her tomorrow, ok great, we're going, but then she calls me: ''hey! so are we going tomorrow?" i said yes - she says ''great! but i can't kiss! i just got my tongue pierced and i have to stay a week without kissing''.............

i can't call off the date! and what the hell am i gonna do during hours with this girl that IS INTO ME but can't kiss me? Should i tease her? sould i kiss her neck? or should i keep the romatinc situations for another possible date where we CAN KISS...

i know it's a pretty stupid situation, but comments from the community is always helpful and fun!

thanks guys
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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reyalp

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i say postpone it
 
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bernardouzeda

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hmmm

if i postpone it , it would be kind of a jerky thing to do.... we get along really well and i think it's not nice to say ''ahhh if can't french kiss you then i don't wanna see you''... if i make up any excuse it will seem kinda obvious too...
i would like some tips or suggestions for unbelieavable a first date experience without french kissing... is this possible?

thanks again

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reyalp

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yeah just skip the tongue then. use the "i can't kiss" excuse from her as an excuse for you to kiss every other part of her body.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Virtual sex...bragging a little bit are we? haha
 

superman2k6

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unless you got great skills, don't go for an F close

but yeah, you can kiss without tongue...
 

reyalp

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Originally posted by bernardouzeda
''hey! so are we going tomorrow?" i said yes - she says ''great! but i can't kiss! i just got my tongue pierced and i have to stay a week without kissing''.............
if she just got her tongue pierced it probably sounded like this

"hey! tho ah we going thomorrow?"
him: yes
"gweat! buh i cant kith! i juth got my thung pierthed and i hath to thay a week withouw kitthin!"
 

Q-Pid

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Make sure you take protection.
Like a magnet, or something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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El MonoLoco

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u can still kiss her... After I got my tounge pierced I kissed some chick the next day...just use lots of listerine like 6-10 times a day for about 2 weeks and you'll be fine.....

The listerine is for your tounge not because the broad is dirty or whatever just you have to keep your mouth really clean if you want it to heal right.....


By the way what guage did you get.....mine's a 4ga now:D
 

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"hey! tho ah we going thomorrow?" gweat! buh i cant kith! i juth got my thung pierthed and i hath to thay a week withouw kitthin!"
LOL! :crackup:
 
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bernardouzeda

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heheh

Great guys, thanks for the tips! By the way, she did sounded like she just got her tongue pierced but not too much , anyway, no women can lie about getting a tongue pierced... it's just stupid, she knows that when i meet her the first thing will be ''hey let me see your new piercing''...

i love you dj's
 
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