"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the piercing thing!!! UNBELIEAVABLE

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bernardouzeda

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Well here it goes - i'm into this girl and she's into me, we never dated but we know each other for some weeks and we only have the chance to speak online,,, we almost have virtual sex every day.... whatever - she just asked if i want to go to the movies with her tomorrow, ok great, we're going, but then she calls me: ''hey! so are we going tomorrow?" i said yes - she says ''great! but i can't kiss! i just got my tongue pierced and i have to stay a week without kissing''.............

i can't call off the date! and what the hell am i gonna do during hours with this girl that IS INTO ME but can't kiss me? Should i tease her? sould i kiss her neck? or should i keep the romatinc situations for another possible date where we CAN KISS...

i know it's a pretty stupid situation, but comments from the community is always helpful and fun!

thanks guys
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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reyalp

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i say postpone it
 
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bernardouzeda

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hmmm

if i postpone it , it would be kind of a jerky thing to do.... we get along really well and i think it's not nice to say ''ahhh if can't french kiss you then i don't wanna see you''... if i make up any excuse it will seem kinda obvious too...
i would like some tips or suggestions for unbelieavable a first date experience without french kissing... is this possible?

thanks again

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reyalp

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yeah just skip the tongue then. use the "i can't kiss" excuse from her as an excuse for you to kiss every other part of her body.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Virtual sex...bragging a little bit are we? haha
 

superman2k6

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unless you got great skills, don't go for an F close

but yeah, you can kiss without tongue...
 

reyalp

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Originally posted by bernardouzeda
''hey! so are we going tomorrow?" i said yes - she says ''great! but i can't kiss! i just got my tongue pierced and i have to stay a week without kissing''.............
if she just got her tongue pierced it probably sounded like this

"hey! tho ah we going thomorrow?"
him: yes
"gweat! buh i cant kith! i juth got my thung pierthed and i hath to thay a week withouw kitthin!"
 

Q-Pid

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Make sure you take protection.
Like a magnet, or something.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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El MonoLoco

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u can still kiss her... After I got my tounge pierced I kissed some chick the next day...just use lots of listerine like 6-10 times a day for about 2 weeks and you'll be fine.....

The listerine is for your tounge not because the broad is dirty or whatever just you have to keep your mouth really clean if you want it to heal right.....


By the way what guage did you get.....mine's a 4ga now:D
 

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"hey! tho ah we going thomorrow?" gweat! buh i cant kith! i juth got my thung pierthed and i hath to thay a week withouw kitthin!"
LOL! :crackup:
 
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bernardouzeda

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heheh

Great guys, thanks for the tips! By the way, she did sounded like she just got her tongue pierced but not too much , anyway, no women can lie about getting a tongue pierced... it's just stupid, she knows that when i meet her the first thing will be ''hey let me see your new piercing''...

i love you dj's
 
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