"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Perils of Perrception - Any help

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Whats up guys, I'm not really new to this forum, just new to posting, but I kinda need some advice. First, an introduction.....i live in Norcal, I have a bunch of hobbies. I like having fun, I like reading, I like being healthy, I like working out, and I like staying active. Anyone wanna hit me up or sarge or anything feel free if ur in the area. I am 16 turning seventeen. Anyways, now for my dilema, if any of you can help........

I would consider myself at least kind of attractive.....I am about 5'8, Azn, Athletically Fit, Have some muscle on me, you know....I am a mesomorph with slight endomorph characteristsss, and Ive been doing pretty fine with females outside of school. I ahve always been shy and reserved before and somewhat out of shape, but I started working on all of those things, and I got no complaints about how I really am right now, except for OCD, but thats a different problem. Anyways...my problem is at school. Ever since freshmen year, I would always be the smart one, you know, the overachiever, the try hard blah blah. You guys know what I have been sayin. Perhaps the girls now, I am a junior, view me as boring, AFC, ect. To add to this my school size is small, with only 100 in my class, whcih adds to the difficulty of opening sets ect, because all fo us know each other kind of wel; and my class is really cliqy. I've read about many articles on high school and stuff, but when I try to open sets sometimes, it just doesnt work in the enviornment. however I will be starting a club. It should be fun, a health and wellness one. Anyways, what are your guys advice. Of, I can't drive, and this school's students live like 30 mins away from me, but hey public transportation.......I really wanna at least get stuff done bfore the end of 06 school yr, because I wanna hang durig sumer. Any help.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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uhhh? what......anyone who can help

i would kinda appreciate it-i feel like im stuck
 
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