"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Perils of Perrception - Any help

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Whats up guys, I'm not really new to this forum, just new to posting, but I kinda need some advice. First, an introduction.....i live in Norcal, I have a bunch of hobbies. I like having fun, I like reading, I like being healthy, I like working out, and I like staying active. Anyone wanna hit me up or sarge or anything feel free if ur in the area. I am 16 turning seventeen. Anyways, now for my dilema, if any of you can help........

I would consider myself at least kind of attractive.....I am about 5'8, Azn, Athletically Fit, Have some muscle on me, you know....I am a mesomorph with slight endomorph characteristsss, and Ive been doing pretty fine with females outside of school. I ahve always been shy and reserved before and somewhat out of shape, but I started working on all of those things, and I got no complaints about how I really am right now, except for OCD, but thats a different problem. Anyways...my problem is at school. Ever since freshmen year, I would always be the smart one, you know, the overachiever, the try hard blah blah. You guys know what I have been sayin. Perhaps the girls now, I am a junior, view me as boring, AFC, ect. To add to this my school size is small, with only 100 in my class, whcih adds to the difficulty of opening sets ect, because all fo us know each other kind of wel; and my class is really cliqy. I've read about many articles on high school and stuff, but when I try to open sets sometimes, it just doesnt work in the enviornment. however I will be starting a club. It should be fun, a health and wellness one. Anyways, what are your guys advice. Of, I can't drive, and this school's students live like 30 mins away from me, but hey public transportation.......I really wanna at least get stuff done bfore the end of 06 school yr, because I wanna hang durig sumer. Any help.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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uhhh? what......anyone who can help

i would kinda appreciate it-i feel like im stuck
 
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