“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Performance Anxiety Thread

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DJ Shaka

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Anyone ever had a problem like this? I'm pretty inexperienced when it comes to sex and I'm having this problem lately, I get nervous and lose my erection.

Any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Calm down relax. Cut back masturbating if you are. However, the most important thing is to just relax dont worry about it. If your just scared for some reason calming down will fix it. Also, i have no idea if this works but eat some food that will raise your blood pressure before.

Oh and get horny really horny with your girl ;D
 
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You taking any medications or drinking? because that might be it. I know a kid who claims his aderal causes him problems, then his B*tch gf yelled at him because he couldn't get it up. I can see how even too much caffeine could cause the problem, or maybe do more foreplay.
 
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here's what happens. when you are too anxious, your blood flow gets cut off from your body parts where you don't need it.

you go into flight or fight mode and your body pumps blood in your muscles that you use for defense and your brain. that's why for some people, their face turns red when you are nervous or anxious.

if you drink caffeine or take ephedrine or pills that 'awaken you' then it will do worse. i've actually had a panick attack about 2 years ago when i was with a girl. i was nervous because she had been the first girl in a long time. on top of that i had 2 large starbucks coffees + 2 caffeine pills and it was enough to give me a panick attack. i almost ended up in the hospital.

now my performance anxiety is gone except very rarely when i'm very excited about being with a new girl who i find extremely attractive or whatever. and that's totally fine, it's okay to be excited to be with an attractive woman.

but now it doesn't stop me from performing. maybe it slows me down a little bit and i need to MENTALLY relax myself first before i can do something.

if you are having performance anxiety and you're young (so theres no PHYSICAL problem with your penis) then just have 2-3 glasses of wine before sex. it will take the edge off the anxiety and believe me, you will have no problem to get hard as hell.

for young guys, two glasses of wine works better than viagra
 
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