Poonani Maker
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The Perfect Man
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
coochieman
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Bullcrap.
Single4Life
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Don't use 18-25 year olds as evidence of what "women" want.... most girls that age range are dumb.
Just because women "want" something, doesn't mean they won't be open to something else. most women will give guys a chance if you got some confidence and something going for you.
I am quite shocked that the 2000 women chose dark hair and brown eyes though. I thought they would go for the nordic blonde hair blue eye thing.
Just because women "want" something, doesn't mean they won't be open to something else. most women will give guys a chance if you got some confidence and something going for you.
I am quite shocked that the 2000 women chose dark hair and brown eyes though. I thought they would go for the nordic blonde hair blue eye thing.
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zekko
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Thank you, somebody had to say it.Single4Life said:
Speaking as a 51 year old blue eyed male, I've seen numerous studies over the course of my life, and they've all consistently said women tend to prefer dark hair and brown eyes.Single4Life said:
You might also find it surprising that most studies I've seen show that men prefer brunettes over blondes. I know I do. Sultry. I like redheads quite a bit, too, but practically every good looking redhead (natural or not) I've met has been bat sh!t crazy. Or at the very least over the top attention seeking.
Love's Orphan
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86% said they want a man who cries during a movie.... I stopped reading right there
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.