Poonani Maker
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Bullcrap.
Single4Life
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Don't use 18-25 year olds as evidence of what "women" want.... most girls that age range are dumb.
Just because women "want" something, doesn't mean they won't be open to something else. most women will give guys a chance if you got some confidence and something going for you.
I am quite shocked that the 2000 women chose dark hair and brown eyes though. I thought they would go for the nordic blonde hair blue eye thing.
Just because women "want" something, doesn't mean they won't be open to something else. most women will give guys a chance if you got some confidence and something going for you.
I am quite shocked that the 2000 women chose dark hair and brown eyes though. I thought they would go for the nordic blonde hair blue eye thing.
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zekko
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Thank you, somebody had to say it.Single4Life said:
Speaking as a 51 year old blue eyed male, I've seen numerous studies over the course of my life, and they've all consistently said women tend to prefer dark hair and brown eyes.Single4Life said:
You might also find it surprising that most studies I've seen show that men prefer brunettes over blondes. I know I do. Sultry. I like redheads quite a bit, too, but practically every good looking redhead (natural or not) I've met has been bat sh!t crazy. Or at the very least over the top attention seeking.
Love's Orphan
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86% said they want a man who cries during a movie.... I stopped reading right there
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.