"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Perfect Don Juan

MightyMate

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Mainly its all true. With 1 exception.

Originally posted by Anti-Dump
THE PERFECT DON JUAN

And lastly, a true Don Juan
makes sure the relationship is 50-50. HALF of the time she is doing what HE wants to do. He feels this in his stomach. Not head.

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Im 50/50 is fair but not right. You have to always have 51% at least, like in business. Myself is taking 70% of the relatio and girls love that. Im always on the top.Anyways. Nice post mate.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Aaron B

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MightyMate said:
Mainly its all true. With 1 exception.



Im 50/50 is fair but not right. You have to always have 51% at least, like in business. Myself is taking 70% of the relatio and girls love that. Im always on the top.Anyways. Nice post mate.
In my experience its best to start out at about 95/5 in your favor.

Then let the ratio increase in her direction gradually over time and she earns it by proving she deserves it.
 
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